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Hello, me being a pedophile

Postby mrdp91 » Sun Oct 18, 2015 7:02 pm

Hello everyone, im new here found this site searching on google. I've wanting to get help about my problem. I am 24 years old and have been addicted to younger girls since i was 19. Its something I've needed help with. Im Hoping to meet other people who has similar problems as me.
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Re: Hello, me being a pedophile

Postby Tululaboo » Mon Oct 19, 2015 1:36 pm

Hello there and welcome, Im glad you managed to find this forum because it is one of the best if not the best places to help figure things out for yourself and get some support while your doing so.

Im 25 myself and have for as far back as I can remember I have had an interest in children and there are many many more member who are in the same boat so if nothing else I hope you realize you are not as alone as you may think.

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Re: Hello, me being a pedophile

Postby mrdp91 » Mon Oct 19, 2015 9:19 pm

Hey there, thanks for having me here. Yeah i really want some help and know about this problem. Its something I've never been open about to others. So i hope meeting and chatting with other people will help me.
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Re: Hello, me being a pedophile

Postby The_Ghoul » Tue Oct 20, 2015 2:23 am

Hii , welcome to the forums! If you need someone to talk to , shoot me a pm . There are plenty others on here too who would be glad to help you sort out these feelings and come up with a treatment plan.
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Re: Hello, me being a pedophile

Postby Serious Lee » Tue Oct 20, 2015 5:25 pm

How much younger girls are you talking about? Anyway you've come to the right place. There are lots of us here, and some good wisdom about how to deal with our lot in life.

You may also want to check out Girl Chat and B4U-ACT.
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Re: Hello, me being a pedophile

Postby mrdp91 » Tue Oct 20, 2015 7:38 pm

Hi there, im usually attracted to girls around 7 to 12. I've been attracted to them for years now. Im Hoping to learn more about this problem and how to deal with it.
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Re: Hello, me being a pedophile

Postby YouthRightsRadical » Thu Oct 22, 2015 1:39 am

Hello. I'm an adult male in my early thirties, primarily attracted to girls from 0-10. Welcome to the board.

I personally don't like thinking of this as a "problem" or in terms of "treatment". There's not really anything wrong with you or I. We just happen to see a kind of beauty other people don't.

I've found over the years that an addiction style approach to this doesn't really lead to good results. Attempts to desensitize or re-orient us are every bit as useless as they are when they are attempted on homosexuals. Because really, for us, this really is just an orientation.

Obviously, that doesn't mean we're somehow predestined to go off and rape a kid, same as "normal" heterosexuals don't go off and rape a member of the opposite sex just because they can't find a consenting partner.

I hope you find your stay here pleasant and helpful.
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Re: Hello, me being a pedophile

Postby metal » Fri Oct 23, 2015 7:31 am

I agree with YRR here. 8-25 or so is my range. And also welcome. No guilt or shame in what God, nature, the universe, shiva, whaterver you think made you, made you to be. Just don't act on the urges or desires. I have sat in the shadows mostly for the last 3 years tons to learn from the peeps here. Good luck in your quest. :wink:




YouthRightsRadical wrote:Hello. I'm an adult male in my early thirties, primarily attracted to girls from 0-10. Welcome to the board.

I personally don't like thinking of this as a "problem" or in terms of "treatment". There's not really anything wrong with you or I. We just happen to see a kind of beauty other people don't.

I've found over the years that an addiction style approach to this doesn't really lead to good results. Attempts to desensitize or re-orient us are every bit as useless as they are when they are attempted on homosexuals. Because really, for us, this really is just an orientation.

Obviously, that doesn't mean we're somehow predestined to go off and rape a kid, same as "normal" heterosexuals don't go off and rape a member of the opposite sex just because they can't find a consenting partner.

I hope you find your stay here pleasant and helpful.
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