DayZero wrote:Hi..
Im a 30ich yo man living in Europe, and like som many other invisible pedophiles, i live a relative normal life. I Have a family, work, go to parties, vacations and so on..
A lot of us live "normal" lives.
DayZero wrote:But thats not who i am...I am a wery sexual person. I am predator.
When i was young, it was enough to look at a girl-model at a magasine, or some randome girl at the beach. Then go home and get released.
As long as you haven't acted out the urges you are not a monster don't beat yourself up too much
DayZero wrote:I believe, that i am a good person. I need to be, so i dont hurt anyone. But what if i cant?
What if i grow weaker in time when the responsebileties are no longer there.
What experience and/or advise can you guys share..
As long as you think you are a good person don't act on the urges. Believe me the 10 seconds of enjoyment is not worth it. As someone else said a 12 step approach might help you, try a AA/NA meeting think of your drug being young girls. Its what I do, they have no idea.
sry to help the derailment.... if you really want to protect children, why not ban cars children may be harmed in accidents, or spoons children get fat and may be harmed by eating to much, if you want to ban everything that may harm children there is a pretty big list, should have to prove a crime happened to go after it