why do i like younger girls o_0??

can some one tell me why i am attracted to girls younger then me !!!

None of us can really tell you why without having a degree in psychology. Even then there is no guarantee.

For starters, what age range are you talking about? Many men are attracted to pubescent girls, we just don't want to admit it or make it public. We are attracted to youth because youthful looking women are normally much more beautiful.

If you are attracted to prepubescent children then there is reason to believe that such attractions are determined before birth for some people. Possibly hormone levels while developing in the womb and other possible factors. There is also reason to believe that an attraction to prepubescent or early pubescent children is caused by emotional or psychological issues which may be dealt with through therapy. Some issues may be deeply rooted in a person and could take months of therapy to help get over. If you are attracted to prepubescent children then perhaps try some self-reflection and thinking about any possible emotional or psychological issues you may be having that could be the cause of your attractions.

hellomynames wrote:can some one tell me why i am attracted to girls younger then me !!!

How much younger?

Taboo? For their youthful features? That they seem more untouched or innocent or even the exact opposite; they don't have the moral hypocrisy of adults.

Because they make you feel closer to a part of your life you can't get back? You like slender delicate bodies in general? The paternal instinct getting a bit cross wired?

Bored with adult women?

hellomynames wrote:can some one tell me why i am attracted to girls younger then me !!!

I spent a good number of years searching for this elusive answer and finally threw my hands up and gave up. I decided that "why" didn't really matter anyway and the search for "why" was really a search to find a way for me to accept myself and stop loathing myself. In the end, what mattered was me accepting what is as what is; and much more important than "why am I this way" is "what can I do about it?"

How old are you? What age range are you finding yourself attracted to? How long has this been going on?

Why wouldn't you be? Little girls are hot.

YouthRightsRadical wrote:Why wouldn't you be? Little girls are hot.

I saw your response several hours ago and contemplated on if, how, or whether to respond.

The statement "Little girls are hot" is purely subjective. What and who one finds "hot" is purely a matter of personal bias and perception. It is not a factual statement. It is a factual statement to say, "I think little girls are hot". But it is not a factual statement to say "Little girls are hot".

With this being the case, to state, "women are hot", "men are hot", "little girls are hot", "little boys are hot", "Hispanics are hot", etc. etc. etc. is purely opinion and do not serve to answer the question at hand: the question being, "Why do I like .... Little girls, women, men, little boys, hispanics, Golden Retrievers ____________ "

I empathize with the asker, as I myself can not find one ... not one rational reason why. Little girls can not meet the sexual, emotional and psychological needs of a man. They have no sexual drive. They can not relate to adult problems. They can not support, they can not comfort, they can not advise. They can go through the motions, but they certainly can not perform sexually or share sexual arousal/gratification with an adult. All they can do is be children. All of the explanations offered by "professionals' sound more to me like speculation and tarrot card readings than they do explanations.

It makes no sense. No sense whatsoever.

Using "hot" to describe a prepubescent girl sends chills down my spine.
Pretty, beautiful, cute...ok. But hot??
Also, as RecoveringSO said, it's no objective, universal statement. It's your own personal opinion.

ElKahn wrote:Using "hot" to describe a prepubescent girl sends chills down my spine.
Pretty, beautiful, cute...ok. But hot??
Also, as RecoveringSO said, it's no objective, universal statement. It's your own personal opinion.

Isn't that as 'insensitive' and 'rude' as what cumulusjames said about necrophilia? I find women hot as I am sexually attracted to them. YouthRightsRadical is sexually attracted to girls so he finds them hot. I thought you were all about keeping potentially offensive and rude comments to ourselves so we can keep this forum a supportive place?

Except children are living, breathing creatures who can get traumatized if they feel someone is creeping on them. Having a small niece it does indeed disturb me that someone out there might find her "hot" and make her feel uncomfortable.

Also I said it's not an objective statement. I don't go around asking people "Why don't you like corpses? They are hot". This is not a way to find an answer why we like certain people.
He made it sound like everyone should find little girls hot. I don't think everyone should find dead people hot. I don't even expect it from other people.

Try again.