do Female Paedophiles exist

I am a female pedophile. Perhaps hebephile really. I'm 26 years old, attracted to pubescent girls in the very early stages of puberty, 10-13 years old, give or take depending on their level of sexual maturation. I'm also attracted to men and women, and people of all genders and sexual identities and orientations, but I have always been most attracted to pubescent girls. Even before I was a pubescent girl myself.

I've accepted it as a part of who I am, part of my own sexual identity. I am non-offending and not a threat to children. Fantasy is a big outlet for me, and I don't feel ashamed for thinking. (We don't have thought police yet!)

I am in a relationship with a 32 year old male, he knows about my sexual fantasies and desires and is very supportive.

We exist.

I appreciate what you said SoVerySmall. I think I have an attraction to male pedophiles and a desire to hear about their fantasies. I think this also fits into my submissive sexuality, and that I'm turned on by male supremacy and men doing whatever they want to women and kids, regardless of the effects.

I do feel ashamed of this, although its definitely all fantasy for me! I know its weird. Are there male pedophiles who have similar desires?

I am female. there are plenty on this forum past and present.

I'm not a pedophile but am interested in trying to understand those who struggle with it.

All I can say is in my many interactions with people over a span of 50 years I've heard numerous personal accounts by boys, girls and adult survivors... of being molested and/or raped by men, but not a single one of being molested sexually by a woman. Except in the news of course. It could be though that there has been a sharp increase of this in the younger generation. Also, could it be that female pedophiles are less likely to actually offend than male pedophiles? ( Women do tend to have a lower sex drive and are still more repressed about sex... in this case a good thing...which might also explain it.)

Prairie gal wrote:I'm not a pedophile but am interested in trying to understand those who struggle with it.

All I can say is in my many interactions with people over a span of 50 years I've heard numerous personal accounts by boys,girls and adult survivors... of being molested and/or raped by men, but not a single one of being molested sexually by a woman. Except in the news of course. It could be though that there has been a sharp increase of this in the younger generation. Also, could it be that female pedophiles are less likely to actually offend than male pedophiles? ( Women do tend to have a lower sex drive and are still more repressed about sex... in this case a good thing...which might also explain it.)

female paedophiles are a interesting topic of debate. I know personally I will never act on my attractions but I don't believe my feelings as less than a male maybe I can manage these feelings better That sounds like I am judging I don't know it's a interesting topic. The way I see it as history has shown in many crime cases females act more when having a partner who's going to act. But again maybe some women might get away with things as they have more access to children it's really a complex one. It's nice to speak to a non paedophile who doesn't want to kill us all thank you for trying to understand it means a lot. Many on here don't care about these attractions but I hate it. If there was a way i could stop these feelings I would.

blackcherry wrote:I am female. there are plenty on this forum past and present.

Excuse-me but do you feel attracted to boys or girls?

maotse wrote:

blackcherry wrote:I am female. there are plenty on this forum past and present.

Excuse-me but do you feel attracted to boys or girls?

Girls also adult male.

I don't really fit in here, because I am male. But I can relate to what you say. I am attracted to male and female pedophiles as well and see myself as younger from time to time. But not so young as many here mentioned. I feel more like 14 or 15, so way past puberty.

I always wanted to know more about that sort of thing. Does anyone know a name of that special aspect of sexuality?