Anyone is a pedophile that doesn't harass?

I'm a pedophile, but I'm not evil, I don't harass, I think it's so rude to harass a child if you know she/he doesn't want you to do stuff with her. We have to think about the kids's feelings. They don't want us to be near them. So we have to respect them. Anyone agree with me?
I don't watch videos, I don't have the courage to see a kid being abused. And I would never do anything with a kid. I also don't see pics of naked kids, I don't like to see.
I would love to meet someone like me.

It's really the same with adults isn't it? One shouldn't harass anyone.

The overwhelming majority of pedophiles don't harass or molest kids. We are the rule, not the exception.

I'm full of empathy, and I would never want to hurt anyone.

I think it's so rude to harass a child if you know she/he doesn't want you to do stuff with her.

As little children, I think one should always assume its that way, no knowing required. Thats how normal people feel.

TaintedAgria wrote:I'm full of empathy, and I would never want to hurt anyone.

Me too.

I could barely approach a pretty women twice my age with dutch courage, I couldn't have the temerity to harass a child.

Welcome.

As far as I know everyone one this forum feels the same way as you and espouse similar if not identical principles. If this is your first time researching on line you may be surprised to learn that there are communities of paedophiles like yourself who use the web to find and offer support. Some have met up in real life and developed close relationships, others prefer to remain anonymous. I have come to realise just how important such groups are and I believe that it does a great service to those who have internalised hatred or an evil profile and are on the brink of despair or bitter ebullition. Why don't you join us? You probably know what this sort of isolation breeds. I'd love to see you around.

Yes, I definitely agree. I'll take it one step further and say to not try to befriend a child, talk to them on an interpersonal level or ask them to sit on your lap. This is not only extremely disrespectful, but also confusing for the child and suggestive. A lot of pedophiles use the excuse "some kids can consent" which is absolute bulls**t. Just act like normal people act around children, and then when alone, have as much fun as you like in your fantasies.

Slim95 wrote:Yes, I definitely agree. I'll take it one step further and say to not try to befriend a child, talk to them on an interpersonal level or ask them to sit on your lap. This is not only extremely disrespectful, but also confusing for the child and suggestive. A lot of pedophiles use the excuse "some kids can consent" which is absolute bulls**t. Just act like normal people act around children, and then when alone, have as much fun as you like in your fantasies.

That's a contradictory post, as the things you say never to do are done by "regular people".