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What makes a non-exclusive pedophile?

Postby anonymousman89 » Fri Feb 06, 2015 12:29 am

I am confused over this, as I sometimes think I may be one.. I read the wikipedia article, but I still have doubts..
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Re: What makes a non-exclusive pedophile?

Postby Mustelidae » Fri Feb 06, 2015 2:31 pm

If you can be sexually attracted to both prepubescent and pubescent/adult people then you are a non-exclusive pedophile
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Re: What makes a non-exclusive pedophile?

Postby Maligan12 » Fri Feb 06, 2015 4:50 pm

We could also use the term "pedophile" in the looser sense and you could still be exclusive if you're attracted to pubertal children but have appreciably less desire for any adult.
Let's judge each other on our actions.
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Re: What makes a non-exclusive pedophile?

Postby mrc123 » Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:03 pm

Hey.. I find this whole exclusive and non exclusive thing quite interesting..

I am a worrying wreck atm because i think im a non exclusive all though i have no idea.

My preference above everything is guys aged 16-22, both emotionally and sexually. im 18 btw. I also find women attractive just not as much.

I occasionally see an attractive 14 year old, by that i mean their face only. Height wise i dont want a small child and also not muscle wise. Its just the face.

What i mean is.. i have been attracted to a 14 year old yes.. but not as much and definetly not as often as i find myself attracted to 16-21 dudes. What does this make me?
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Re: What makes a non-exclusive pedophile?

Postby Mustelidae » Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:14 pm

It means you are a bisexual with homosexual hebephilic tendencies
. Or at least that is what I think
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Re: What makes a non-exclusive pedophile?

Postby mrc123 » Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:44 pm

But why the Hebephile label? and not Ephebophile? I mean isnt preference the deciding factor?

Also.. i thought it was normal for men to be hebephilic in some degree.
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Re: What makes a non-exclusive pedophile?

Postby Mustelidae » Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:58 pm

Sorry I just lumped the ephebophilia in with attraction to adults since it is natural. Hebephilia is quite natural too considering we should be attracted to young, fertile people. Some debate whether the term hebephile should even exist because of that but some also debate whether homosexuality is natural also.
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Re: What makes a non-exclusive pedophile?

Postby skeleton-countess » Fri Feb 06, 2015 6:53 pm

Mustelidae wrote:Sorry I just lumped the ephebophilia in with attraction to adults since it is natural. Hebephilia is quite natural too considering we should be attracted to young, fertile people. Some debate whether the term hebephile should even exist because of that but some also debate whether homosexuality is natural also.

If I could have one wish, it would be for people to stop trying to make claims about what's "natural" and what's not natural.
My second wish would be for people to stop obsessing about reproduction and fertility. That's not what life is about. Life can be about whatever you want it to be. Nature doesn't give a s**t whether we reproduce or not.
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Re: What makes a non-exclusive pedophile?

Postby anonymousman89 » Fri Feb 06, 2015 8:59 pm

Thanks to everyone for replying.. What if I feel more attracted to women than girls? I like women with both voluptuous and athletic bodies.. But sometimes when I'm in public and I see a girl 4-11 that I find attractive, I can't help myself but lust after them. Specially, if I can see their legs/feet and their wearing sandals or a skirt. I also like their faces, but I have my preferences. Seeing them in leggins also drives me wild..

It's not just lust, sometimes I get an intense sexual urge that frightens me. I made a note to myself to steer clear away from them, as it pains me mentally and emotionally. It makes me feel like a monster..

I also seem to be suffering from sexual addiction, not sure if this is the cause..
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Re: What makes a non-exclusive pedophile?

Postby TaintedAgria » Fri Feb 06, 2015 11:35 pm

I guess it means that you're also able to be attracted to secondary sex characteristics... unlike me..
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