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Re: On having nothing to live for

Postby cumulusjames » Tue Jan 27, 2015 10:20 am

Do you know. I was speaking to a 45 yr old on a gay dating app. When he learned that I was 34 he promptly told me I was too old and blocked me. I was also talking to a 35 yr old who appeared positively horrified when I suggested a possibility of cooking him dinner.

Mid teenage gays are the only ones with any illusions of romance, and even they are few. By the time you are 20 the romance has been ###$ out of you and the endless pursuit of the next ###$ is all that remains. And the prospects for that are only open to the under 30's.
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Re: On having nothing to live for

Postby Reaper » Tue Jan 27, 2015 2:08 pm

ElKahn wrote:This is unhelpful. It's clear that he's suffering and needs support from people.


And he can't do that in one thread only...?

If you can't be supportive and post offensive, destructive thoughts like these ones then please stay away from these threads.


Quit being so fking dramatic. My post was neither offensive or destructive. And who are you to tell me to stay away from these threads. You're not a moderator here. I'll post any damn place I feel like posting.

Even cumulusjames wasn't as bothered by my post as you clearly are.
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Re: On having nothing to live for

Postby ElKahn » Tue Jan 27, 2015 2:19 pm

This is not the first time someone from ANTISOCIAL PD FORUM comes here to insult someone.
If you people can't avoid being offensive then stay where you belong to. Period.
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Re: On having nothing to live for

Postby Randi » Tue Jan 27, 2015 2:21 pm

Cumulusjames, no one is going to change your life for you. You have to do it for yourself or it is never going to get better. I understand that you are venting and that helps (I know that it does), but you have to get past the venting stage and take your life into your own hands and make changes. Otherwise you are going to be stuck feeling the way you do, all the time. People here are trying to help, but if you don't let them and take steps for yourself then you are just spinning your wheels and nothing will ever get better.
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Re: On having nothing to live for

Postby Reaper » Tue Jan 27, 2015 2:23 pm

ElKahn wrote:This is not the first time someone from ANTISOCIAL PD FORUM comes here to insult someone.
If you people can't avoid being offensive then stay where you belong to. Period.


Maybe you should learn not to be so damn sensitive. You seem to get offended very, very easily.

Not everyone cares to sugar-coat their comments just to spare your feelings.
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Re: On having nothing to live for

Postby cumulusjames » Tue Jan 27, 2015 3:07 pm

Just want someone to talk to sometimes. I never meant to cause a fight or offend anyone.
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Re: On having nothing to live for

Postby Ada » Tue Jan 27, 2015 7:42 pm

Steady on please, folks. We're here to support each other. Not to label anyone "you people." Or to take potshots at how other people choose to post here.
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 More than machinery, we need humanity.
 More than cleverness, we need kindness and gentleness.”

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Re: On having nothing to live for

Postby cumulusjames » Tue Jan 27, 2015 7:44 pm

I'm lonely that's all.
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Re: On having nothing to live for

Postby Siamese Fever » Tue Jan 27, 2015 9:12 pm

cumulusjames wrote:I'm lonely that's all.

I'm a bit curious. Have you sought out many relationships with males without the implication of sex?
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Re: On having nothing to live for

Postby cumulusjames » Tue Jan 27, 2015 9:22 pm

No.
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