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by YouthRightsRadical » Sat Jan 17, 2015 3:31 am
MapleSyrup wrote: What can stop the fantasy from "turning into REAL" when the chance is available/ accessed by the predator to its FANTASY prey?
So, you're one of those nut jobs who enacts their every impulse with no regard for the consequences to themselves or others. You are an incredibly dangerous person.
The rest of us understand the difference between fantasy and reality.
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by MapleSyrup » Sat Jan 17, 2015 3:45 am
YouthRightsRadical wrote:MapleSyrup wrote: What can stop the fantasy from "turning into REAL" when the chance is available/ accessed by the predator to its FANTASY prey?
So, you're one of those nut jobs who enacts their every impulse with no regard for the consequences to themselves or others. You are an incredibly dangerous person.
The rest of us understand the difference between fantasy and reality.
I am not nut. I am not dangerous.....simply because I am not Pedophile ..not everythingphilia.
I am a simple person who is in (supposedly) decent dialogue.
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by YouthRightsRadical » Sat Jan 17, 2015 3:52 am
MapleSyrup wrote:YouthRightsRadical wrote:MapleSyrup wrote: What can stop the fantasy from "turning into REAL" when the chance is available/ accessed by the predator to its FANTASY prey?
So, you're one of those nut jobs who enacts their every impulse with no regard for the consequences to themselves or others. You are an incredibly dangerous person.
The rest of us understand the difference between fantasy and reality.
I am not nut. I am not dangerous.....simply because I am not Pedophile ..not everythingphilia.
I am a simple person who is in (supposedly) decent dialogue.
Decent dialogue doesn't include you treating us like predators. Decent people understand this basic rule of ettiquette. Likewise, I'll stop accusing you of monsterous behavior when you stop accusing us of it.
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by Mustelidae » Sat Jan 17, 2015 4:14 am
MapleSyrup wrote:ctithe wrote:MapleSyrup wrote:So, what can make the difference between child sexual abuser and a Pedophile fantacy practitioner? The prey is always the same, the innocent child.
What makes the difference is that the fantasy isn't real.
What can stop the fantasy from "turning into REAL" when the chance is available/ accessed by the predator to its FANTASY prey?
So after you fantasize about having consentual sex with a woman, you rape one when the opportunity presents itself? No? What stops you? Oh yeah! I think they're called morals!
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by MapleSyrup » Sat Jan 17, 2015 4:59 am
Arrogance is bliss. Ignorance (in my side) is bliss too.
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by Mustelidae » Sat Jan 17, 2015 5:06 am
I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.
I can write quotes in bold too.
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by sprooglestrewft » Sat Jan 17, 2015 5:22 am
ctithe wrote:My fantasies cohere with the stage of development of the individual I'm fantasizing about. If a girl shows signs of sexual awareness in real life, I may fantasize about sexual activities with her, according to her level of understanding or curiosity. If a girl is firmly prepubescent then I just imagine seeing her naked or something. I don't fantasize about 6-year-olds in lingerie bouncing up and down on my... er, couch. It just feels wrong and incoherent.
I hear this a lot, especially among nepiophiles. I can't relate and I couldn't imagine having these limits on my imagination. My sexual fantasies are similar regardless of whether the girl in them is a toddler or an adult. It is a blessing to be able to imagine things that do not conform to reality.
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by Endymion » Sat Jan 17, 2015 8:07 am
MapleSyrup wrote:What can stop the fantasy from "turning into REAL" when the chance is available/ accessed by the predator to its FANTASY prey?
The fact that I don't want to do anything that might harm anyone. Besides, I don't fantasize about predatory acts.
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by MapleSyrup » Sat Jan 17, 2015 9:41 pm
ctithe wrote:MapleSyrup wrote:What can stop the fantasy from "turning into REAL" when the chance is available/ accessed by the predator to its FANTASY prey?
The fact that I don't want to do anything that might harm anyone. Besides, I don't fantasize about predatory acts.
Still doesn't make sense.
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by Endymion » Sat Jan 17, 2015 10:27 pm
MapleSyrup wrote:ctithe wrote:MapleSyrup wrote:What can stop the fantasy from "turning into REAL" when the chance is available/ accessed by the predator to its FANTASY prey?
The fact that I don't want to do anything that might harm anyone. Besides, I don't fantasize about predatory acts.
Still doesn't make sense.
Of course it does.
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