For boy lovers

Mustelidae wrote:Sorry I completely missed your point then. Perhaps I was looking for an excuse to get all this off my chest. I'm fairly certain the Wikipedia page for pederasty makes a distinction between pederasty and pedophilia or at least suggests some possible reasons for them not both being present in a person.

As for an explanation why it is just boys while I'm also attracted to adult females. Perhaps it is like what James (Can I call you James?) has said. It may perhaps be that we are repressing our homosexuality but it is too hard for us to fully repress it so we are attracted to males that still show some feminine qualities so we can at least partly accept it.

Mustelidae wrote:Hahaha. Well I'd prefer much closer to 5ft and maybe a bit smaller. I thought I was thinking more in features rather than age? It's just that those features are expressed more often in that age range.

cumulusjames wrote:

Mustelidae wrote:Hahaha. Well I'd prefer much closer to 5ft and maybe a bit smaller. I thought I was thinking more in features rather than age? It's just that those features are expressed more often in that age range.

The 23 yr old I slept with the other day was 5ft 2. He was firm and smooth and had a great bum, his legs has just a whisp of hair, but nothing too much. You could not see yourself in that situation? Have a look at the porn star mike18 - does he do anything for you?

Mustelidae wrote:

cumulusjames wrote:

Mustelidae wrote:Hahaha. Well I'd prefer much closer to 5ft and maybe a bit smaller. I thought I was thinking more in features rather than age? It's just that those features are expressed more often in that age range.

The 23 yr old I slept with the other day was 5ft 2. He was firm and smooth and had a great bum, his legs has just a whisp of hair, but nothing too much. You could not see yourself in that situation? Have a look at the porn star mike18 - does he do anything for you?

I googled him. I felt very uncomfortable and grossed out. Then I felt like I was about to cry. Should he turn me on? Should he not? Does he subconsciously and this reaction is me denying that fact?

Mustelidae wrote:I understand that many 14 year olds look like that. I'm attracted to the smaller, more feminine ones. Higher voices, smaller, thinner bodies. Maybe those closer to a 12 or 13 year old that just happen to be 14.

cumulusjames wrote:

Mustelidae wrote:I understand that many 14 year olds look like that. I'm attracted to the smaller, more feminine ones. Higher voices, smaller, thinner bodies. Maybe those closer to a 12 or 13 year old that just happen to be 14.

What could you get emotionally and sexually that you could not get from an over 18? What kind of sexual activity do you imagine having? That could be important.

sprooglestrewft wrote:The question I've always had for boy attracted pedophiles has been to those who are attracted only to adult females and male children. If someone is attracted to both children and female adults how then do they have such a strong preference for male children? That strikes me as odd and I have never gotten a straight forward answer other than "I'm not sure". I am very curious.

I can only imagine that there is a large percentage of heterosexual men out there who are attracted to females for their physical assets but are spiritually or emotionally attracted to males. Perhaps that is why those who prefer prepubescent children who are nearly physical identical to children of the opposite sex often prefer the same sex.