Gore/mutilation fetishism is not necrophilia

Objective observer here, since I don't have a sexual fetish or an out- of- the- mainstream sexuality. But I see Dark Soul as being disrespectful and intentionally provocative, not to mention jumping to conclusions and being judgemental. I support Countess and Graveyard as they try to deal with this type of cyberattack. I've found them helpful and patient in explaining themselves and necrophilia.
I'm here to educate myself and try to understand people who are outside the box and kicked to the curb in society. I understand that fetishes around gore and mutilation are not the same as necrophilia.

Despite that, I do not want to miss the fact that Dark Soul has to live with himself day in and day out, turned on by torture, violence and murder. I do not expect that such a person's life is easy, nor will such a person be easy to deal with in my opinion.

As I read on this Forum, I wonder whether people with terrible thoughts try to monitor
their minds and imaginations? Do you Dark Soul?

I doubt that I have any more self-control or willpower than the next person, yet I don't allow bad thoughts to percolate and take up residence in my head. If I'm really mad at someone and feel like punching them in the head, I switch that thought off immediately, unless I need to punch him in the head in self-defense which has happened only a handful of times in a lifetime. If I start having a fantasy that I feel is wrong (having sex with a married man), I can and do change it in an instant.

We can control out heart rate and mood by what we're thinking; why not take some responsibility for and control over our thoughtlife? Some people seem perfectly fine with living with a sewer of a mind and the conflict and unhappiness that ensues. Where is the joy and peace in living with a sewer in one's head?

Do you feel your mind has control over you, or do you have control over your mind?

Despite some attempts to get things back on track here I dont think this thread is serving a useful purpose anymore. Please keep things respectful and remember that first and foremost the Paraphilias Forum exists for those who have paraphilias and should be a safe and supportive place for them. Others are welcome here as long as they are respectful. Thank you for your cooperation with this.

I have locked this thread

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