Pedoromantic?

Hey, I'm new here and trying to figure this out.

I'm in no way predominantly sexually attracted to children (well maybe just a little), but I do tend to have feelings for some, and that's what triggers my pedosexuality. Like a lot of people, personality is the main reason I ever am attracted to someone. And someone who has a childlike/childish personality gets me all excited. Whether it's a child or an adult, anyone who has the childlike charm gets me all zippy, or more like un-zippy. (that was horrible and I should be ashamed).

And it's not just the childish/childlike and imaginative personality that makes me feel this attraction. It's also the fact that they also have a sense of vulnerability and humility, which is rare in adults. When it comes to all seriousness, most children know they aren't the smartest or best. It's kind of hard to see that quality nowadays with everybody fighting each other and telling each other what they believe is considered "moral". Children are the freest people in the world because they don't let this world confine them.

And the other fact to why I like children is that I'm actually small enough to pass as an older middle schooler and children aren't too much different from my size. Also add in the fact that I am a bit of a child on the inside.

And maybe the outside to.
Sucks being an Asian gay guy who's mostly dominant.

I fall in love with children pretty much for the same reasons you gave, except for being small enough to pass as one lol Although a lot of people who meet me think that i'm 16/17 and i'm 29. And i don't mind that in the slightest. lol

But yeah..there's this boy i'm in love with, he's 16 now but i've been in love with him for 8 years. i find myself wishing he was still 11, because he was so sweet and innocent. Then puberty happened lol

i don't get why people have to go through puberty and become monsters.lol

Lol, well I am not exactly small enough to be a child, but I can still pass as a 14 year old I think, and maybe even a middle schooler. Aha.

But I do still feel like a child on the inside. And like I said, it's one of the main reasons why I like younger people more. I feel so different from adults and most teenagers and I feel as if they look down upon me. I mean, I am short, but I'm talking more in a mentality/morality sense. No matter what, it always seems like everyone is more closed minded and think they "know it all." And everyone else who is more open minded pities me more than anything. I hate it.

Maybe it's because I'm not as talented as most people. Then again, everyone still looks at me as if I'm a child, so it's not my fault.

('ﾉ-.-)

anynomouse wrote:I'm in no way predominantly sexually attracted to children (well maybe just a little), but I do tend to have feelings for some

We are designed this way, children evoke powerful feelings in almost everyone; it's so we will bond with them, care for them, protect them from saber tooth tigers and the like.

It's also the fact that they also have a sense of vulnerability and humility, which is rare in adults.

It is. But not unknown either. If you are seeking these kind of real and loving people maybe try recovered addicts, the spiritual community, rural people...

May i ask a question? have you thought more about why the childlike personality attracts you so much? I know you talk about how it is rare to see this in adults but I just wondered if there was more to it than that? It might be that you are attracted to children and that is your sexuality and that is it but it seems quite a specific thing to pick out and I just wondered what your thinking was around that. No need to answer if you dont want to.

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anynomouse wrote:Hey, I'm new here and trying to figure this out.

I'm in no way predominantly sexually attracted to children (well maybe just a little), but I do tend to have feelings for some, and that's what triggers my pedosexuality. Like a lot of people, personality is the main reason I ever am attracted to someone. And someone who has a childlike/childish personality gets me all excited. Whether it's a child or an adult, anyone who has the childlike charm gets me all zippy, or more like un-zippy. (that was horrible and I should be ashamed).

And it's not just the childish/childlike and imaginative personality that makes me feel this attraction. It's also the fact that they also have a sense of vulnerability and humility, which is rare in adults. When it comes to all seriousness, most children know they aren't the smartest or best. It's kind of hard to see that quality nowadays with everybody fighting each other and telling each other what they believe is considered "moral". Children are the freest people in the world because they don't let this world confine them.

And the other fact to why I like children is that I'm actually small enough to pass as an older middle schooler and children aren't too much different from my size. Also add in the fact that I am a bit of a child on the inside.

And maybe the outside to.
Sucks being an Asian gay guy who's mostly dominant.

May I ask: what is the origin of the word "PedoRomantic"? where did this word come from? is it something different from the original romance? Are you specialist in Pedo Romance (child romance) in the way some doctors are specialist in Pediatrics, others are specialist in adult medicine?

I'm in no way predominantly sexually attracted to children (well maybe just a little), : ok, this is contradiction. How? If a person can't feel sexual or romantic feelings towards cute things then pedoromantics don't exist. Also you said "just a little": how much is that "little"?

If I am the moderator of this forum I would be very confused.

anynomouse wrote:It's also the fact that they also have a sense of vulnerability and humility, which is rare in adults. When it comes to all seriousness, most children know they aren't the smartest or best. It's kind of hard to see that quality nowadays with everybody fighting each other and telling each other what they believe is considered "moral". Children are the freest people in the world because they don't let this world confine them.

Rereading this I'm reminded of Holden Caufield. Sounds like you haven't been turned to "the dark side" yet and you still prefer the company of people who are vivacious, non-egotistical, and aren't "phoneys". What's wrong with that? Hopefully you can maintain your humanity as you get older and are exposed to more and more miserable and hostile people. Despite that they may try and shame you, there is really nothing wrong with having kids as friends. Your post sounds very sweet.

I'm kind of the opposite.

I like the idea of having a relationship with a child I think because I like their bodies and I relate to their state of restriction as well as the chance to finally be the benefactor of someone cos usually I'm the helpless one who needs people to help him (though not for a while).

However, these fantasies involve distinctly precocious children. That Frasier crane combination of intellectualism and childish pettiness is very charming to me.