Money Fetish?

Dita wrote:but yeah i'm the same way, I don't take advantage of guys. But If they wanna buy me things, i'm not gonna complain. lol

Exactly, it makes me look like an idiot when someone gives me something and then I complain about it. I don't ask for gifts, people just give them to me, so I don't feel as if I'm "leading anyone on" or anything.

Bloody gold diggers!

Graveyard76 wrote:Bloody gold diggers!

Exactly, buddy, exactly!
just women being women!

ElKahn wrote:

Graveyard76 wrote:Exactly, buddy, exactly!
just women being women!

They're not getting any Christmas presents off me.

ElKahn wrote:Hi, UnstruckNote.

This doesn't sound like a fetish, unless you get sexually aroused by it. Is it sexual? Do you get aroused by it?

Anyway, as Graveyard suggested, it's not ok to take advantage of people, so you might want to moderate yourself.

Yes I do get aroused by it but I guess it's not a "true" fetish in the sense that I don't need it to get off.

-- Fri Nov 28, 2014 9:35 pm --

Graveyard76 wrote:You're not unusual amongst women, believe me!

I don't know whether or not a money fetish, or similar paraphilia exists, but it's wrong to take advantage of people and string them along. I'm not saying that buying gifts automatically entitles men to expect something in return, but don't piss around with people's feelings, no matter what gullible mugs they happen to be.

I in no way pretend to be interested in these guys in exchange for anything, I am totally open about the fact that I have no sexual interest in men but there are guys out there who want to buy me things and I do enjoy it. I do believe in being honest and have no intention of playing with anyone feelings, I just worry some times that for some of these men it may be kinda like an addiction and they may spend money on me even when they shouldn't.

-- Fri Nov 28, 2014 9:36 pm --

ElKahn wrote:

Graveyard76 wrote:Bloody gold diggers!

Exactly, buddy, exactly!
just women being women!

Well that seems pretty sexist.

UnstruckNote wrote:

ElKahn wrote:

Graveyard76 wrote:Bloody gold diggers!

Exactly, buddy, exactly!
just women being women!

Well that seems pretty sexist.

Yeah, I agree
How dare I enjoy receiving presents just like any other human being in the world.

Just men being men here, I see just like all the other jerks in this world who fault me for not accepting guys' relentless advances.

I apologize, but I was just kidding. All I meant was that in general, women like receiving presents more than men.
That's all I meant, and I'm sure Graveyard was just joking too. No offense intended.

I'm actually one of those guys who loves buying things for girls. And it's not to get something in return, I just do it cause I like seeing them happy.

Thank you for the apology. No hard feelings