Looking for Support [TW: Rape Fantasies]

Thanks DesLock

Don't worry, these fantasies are not so rare You may not hear people explaining about this fetish in real life, but one look at porn will make you see that there are many others. I don't know if this will be helpful to you or even more triggering, but you may want to get these fantasies out through hentai. Hentai is filled with porn of girls abused by nasty looking monsters (usually hugely endowed) and if it will make you feel any better, tentacle porn is one of the most popular searches in hentai. It may be useful for you to try to switch to animated fantasies because they have less connection to real-life situations and real-life people (however, there is also a risk that you will start enjoying it more and this may frustrate you). In any way - as long as you are aware these are just fantasies and that you don't want to realize them, you're quite safe and under control. Good luck!

I don't know the gender of most of these replies but I'm a woman and I have sort of the same fantasies. Some of my favourite porn is hentai or monster/tentacle. My husband finds it weird, hey I kinda do too. But whatever. It's not like I could even act on it. Honestly, as long as you're not acting on your fantasies in real life, who's it hurting? I don't fantasize about monsters raping me, I fantasize about them raping women/girls. The rougher the better. I consider myself normal in every day life lol but I keep my fantasies to myself. Nobody needs to know what I think about when I get off. Just thought I'd throw it out there that you're not alone.

of the little that i know about such things, rape fantasies often stem from guilt about sex. the rape aspect absolves the party fantasizing about being raped from feeling guilty about the sexual encounter, as it's forced and unwanted, and therefore not their responsibility. women in particular appear to be susceptible to such fantasies, as they're more passive about sexual matters. i'll guess that this aspect of immature parties being raped could be an extension to this theme of innocence and therefore lack of responsibility, however, that's just a guess. it's a fact that, culturally, people enjoy violence in terms of entertainment. i'm not sure that's entirely healthy but nor am i surprised that such violence spills over into their sexual fantasies either. if it worries you, stop doing it. you don't have to indulge in fantasies that cause you guilt or shame. in part, it may be that you enjoy inflicting this guilt or shame on yourself. this may be related to feeling of unworthiness. perhaps a way to avoid this is to realise that, as others have said, you're not actually harming anyone and as such you have nothing to actually be guilty or ashamed of. that realisation may lessen you desire to punish yourself, if that's indeed what you're doing. beyond that, i think you just need to try to be more relaxed about your sexuality. apparently, the societies with the strictest sexual codes of conduct have the greatest degree of sexual deviance. repression isn't good at all in terms of sexual health. and that's basically what i think this is about.

That's my fantasy too. I'm a woman and I ABSOLUTELY fantasize about boys and young men (early 20s) being raped. Violent attacks. Like male victim fighting the male attacker and ultimately being overpowered. And COMPLETELY unwanted. I'm not into monsters or animals or anything like that though.

rodeo_clown2 wrote:That's my fantasy too. I'm a woman and I ABSOLUTELY fantasize about boys and young men (early 20s) being raped. Violent attacks. Like male victim fighting the male attacker and ultimately being overpowered. And COMPLETELY unwanted. I'm not into monsters or animals or anything like that though.

A complete show of domination and submission. Not uncommon among young women I'd imagine.

Hey;p Your not a monster or anything, last time I checked, this a while ago, rape was on of the most common fantasies in the world. so not alone much in that aspect;p while with the kid thing, My fantasies are of prepubescent boys or young to mid teenage boys being brutally raped and tortured by men, sometimes there's one sometimes there's a group, and sold as a sex slave sometimes,usually after having the people he cared about at the time all brutally murdered. like skinned alive.

so not alone in the kid part of that either;p Now i feel like creep now that I've just written a fantasy of mine like that, anyway, your not a monster, don't think that because you'll only feel worse about yourself, and that's never a good thing, just take it in stride and find friends who really don't mind those fantasies of yours.

I hope everything works out well for you though;p

I think there is probably prety many that has those fantasise. Even I have had them sometimes, but mine are more or less always aimed on little girls, mostly preteens, or actually always preteens.
But still they are only fantasies. But there is a strange power in the fantasy of having sex with a kid without consent.