Primary/Elementary school experiences

I might be unusual, but I can only remember one incident that was definitely sexual throughout my time at such a school. Of course, it might be that any sexual behaviour was entirely suppressed in public, but I cannot believe this to be the case. I am discounting the usual kiss-chasing and perhaps skirt flipping, which might be seen as sexual. The incident I witnessed in the playground, just metres away, involved two boys in the final year, so about age 11, who were clasped together, grinding away, obviously sexually aroused, and masturbating together quite openly. I recognised it as such since I had been masturbating for perhaps a year or so, but in private.

What did you experience or see in the behaviours of others of a similar nature whilst at such schools?

Secondary school was a different matter entirely.

Don't be shy.

Well, as your classic Vietnam veteran says: "I've seen things, man". Sexual activity was common among my classmates, particularly from about 7 or 8 onwards. Less so at secondary school, where the kids started to recognize it as a private activity normally reserved for pairs in private. My girlfriend (who didn't go to my primary school) engaged in regular sexual activity between the ages of 5 and 10, enjoyed it and on balance found it beneficial to her well-being. Personally my own sexual adventures prior to high school were very modest in number and scope, being mostly restricted to a bit of comparing and solo masturbation, but that's for the most part because by the time I had a proper sexual appetite (aged 9 or 10) I already had a strong sense that it was a private thing to be engaged in solo or with a girlfriend. No circle jerks for me, then.

I had experiences outside of school at that time, but in school there wasn't much (other than, as you said, kiss-chasing and skirt-flipping). There was one boy who was a year ahead of me that would masturbate behind the bushes on the play ground and some of us would sneak back and watch him (though as I think about it I think I was the only one who would watch as much as I could).

Didn't have any. I was an introvert and a late bloomer.

I got in trouble for getting frisky with one of the girls in elementary school. Got pulled aside by the teachers who told me that I "was in very big trouble and shouldn't do it ever again". I suppose because the kid wasn't much of a fan of my advances but then again, she was a bit tall for me.

After being scolded for my ass chaser behavior I pretty much kept to myself.

Eh, missed opportunities.

I think I must have had a perfect sexual storm in my elementary school days:

About age 6:

• Bullied by a kid who pooped in his pants and dropped a big turd on our lawn.
• Pooped in my own pants, cleaned up without punishment by my mom.
• Coerced to pee into a bottle by some older boys.

Ages 7 - 12:

• Circle jerks with friends, and masturbating one of them.
• Constant talk about pee and poop.
• Witnessing anal sex between two younger boys.
• Having "anal urges" myself.
• Viewing soft porn featuring pink silk panties and "nice" young women (my father had an erotic calendar hidden in his dresser drawer, and I saw a calendar in the sheriff's office that was burned into my libido.)

Ages 13 - 19:

• Being told by my grandmother than women used to pee without undressing; she didn't tell me that panties hadn't been invented.
• Beginnings of coprophilia and urophilia.
• Starting to cross dress in panties, when I could get hold of them, combined with coprophilia and urophilia and tucking menstrual pads in my underwear.

Overlaying all of this: Nominally religious parents who warned me away from sex until I was married, but taught me nothing about sex. In fact, my mother lied to me about the birth of babies. I was also taught that I only had to be a "good" boy, and that meant being asexual until marriage, apparently.

I've been burdened with these fetishes and paraphilias for going on 60 years now, and they are perhaps stronger than ever. Yet I've had a good marriage and a successful academic and professional career. I only told my wife about my sexual difficulties five years ago. She's been very supportive.

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I'm the youngest of 12, so people expect family experiences, but nothing liked that happened.
I first gave head to an older guy when I was 8-9 and from there that became quite normal - from age 9ish hanging around the library or park , and getting/giving oral/etc. I didn't orgasm, I just loved the attention and using the guys for things. It was fun to see how desperate they got.

One incident I forgot to mention in my previous post: In Grade 1, a little girl sitting in front of me had to use the washroom, but our teacher wouldn't let her go. After squirming for several minutes, her bladder finally gave up and the started wetting herself, and urine began pouring onto the floor. The teacher got angry. I was sympathetic, and perhaps (I assume) turned on despite my age.

In my late teens, I went to Presbyterian church camp. A friend and I arrived early, and the minister in charge asked us to dig a hole for the girls' latrine, and to pile the dirt in a berm around the sides and back of the hole, which would be covered by a tent. He said he didn't want us to see what the girls "produced". I was already well into my copraphilia and urophilia, and his instructions did nothing to reduce my infatuation, although my sexual activities have never involved being a pee/poop voyeur, except via porn videos and stills.

All in all, it seems to me that in my youth I encountered a great many situations that, in sum, created my very quirky sexuality.

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