How do you explain/cover up your disinterest in women?

This question is more for exclusives or those who are much more attracted to kids than adults.

So, today my friend randomly asked me "why don't you ever hit on girls?". I didn't know what to say... So I made up some bs excuse. He went on to say "I swear it seems like you're not even into girls". I usually make an effort to act like I find girls attractive, but the fact that I've only had one girlfriend who I got nowhere with sexually seems pretty odd.

Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? And if so how did you handle it? If not, how do you cover it up so well?

I don't try to cover it up. That led my dad to think I was gay for years, so I presume that's the assumption other folks are going with most of the time.

I find most people don't want to know that the person they're talking with is a pedophile, so they'll make up all sorts of stories on their own so their mind doesn't go there. And that includes people who've regularly teased me about flirting with toddlers.

I regularly wear a T-shirt with the GLogo I picked up for Alice Day several years back when I hang out with friends. I explained the significance of both the symbol and the day to them, and I'm still not sure they get it. I left them a sliver of an option for deniability, and they seem to have taken it, rather than attempt to process that their friend might be a pedophile.

I'm exclusive, and I actually used to make up crushes on classmates when I was younger. I felt left out and I was afraid people would think something's wrong with me.

I seriously advise against doing something like that. It was the worst thing I could do. It was kind of like fighting against my nature, it always felt wrong, and usually made me feel even more lost. Then I got a boyfriend, and that relationship was one of the things that almost drove me to suicide.

I don't really think it's healthy to lie or deny yourself like that. So I try my best not to. Around friends and other people, I don't make any effort to show interest in anyone. People don't usually question me that much, it's only close friends who sometimes do. Whenever they ask me those questions, I just say I'm not interested in dating or interested in anyone. It's still a lie I suppose, but a less harmful one than trying to fabricate feelings, because that always ends up pressuring me to live up to standards.

There's also the fact that pretending to be attracted to someone might make you feel like you have to go much farther than you want to, like dating someone, just to keep up the lie.

Growing up gay in a conservative Republican family (I hate conservatives to this day) was sheer hell. I began to loathe myself, and attempt to go out with girls I was not even interested in. But all my attractions and fantasies were "boy-ward." I was happier when I finally accepted that I was attracted to boys; but at the same time, I realized what a persona non grata I was to the rest of society. The ultimate irony about all this is the fact that some notables who revolutionized Western thought, among them Socrates, Plato and Alexander the Great, to name but a few, were pedophiles, and specifically boy-lovers. Society owes a debt of gratitude to the very ones they despise. This is one of the reasons I positively detest popular culture, which is superficial at its base.
And just for the record, Rupert Murdoch, thanks for ruining my country and making it a laughing stock. I wish you had your Fox "News" network shoved up your naughty hole.

Why not just tell them you're a-sexual?

luksik wrote:Why not just tell them you're a-sexual?

Lol they would never buy that. After all the extremely gross sexual conversations we've had, they know I'm a pervert. They just don't know what kind of pervert

YouthRightsRadical wrote:I don't try to cover it up. That led my dad to think I was gay for years, so I presume that's the assumption other folks are going with most of the time.

I find most people don't want to know that the person they're talking with is a pedophile, so they'll make up all sorts of stories on their own so their mind doesn't go there. And that includes people who've regularly teased me about flirting with toddlers.

I regularly wear a T-shirt with the GLogo I picked up for Alice Day several years back when I hang out with friends. I explained the significance of both the symbol and the day to them, and I'm still not sure they get it. I left them a sliver of an option for deniability, and they seem to have taken it, rather than attempt to process that their friend might be a pedophile.

Flirting with toddlers? Lol I'm not exactly sure how one can flirt with a toddler, but that sounds like it would be really funny to watch. Just wondering, what exactly is the GLogo and what does it have to do with pedophilia?

By "flirting", they're usually talking about the fact that I make eye contact with them, smile at them and elicit smiles in return, occasionally make funny faces to make them laugh. I like making them happy.

As to the GLogo it is a spiral heart design, usually done in pink. A google image search will turn it up pretty quickly. The name is derived from "Girl Lover logo".

Some female attracted pedophiles, such as myself, use it as a symbol to identify ourselves. Various hate groups are also aware of this symbol, so I wear it out in public as a kind of "gang colors" to tell my fellow pedophiles I'm one of them, and to invite aggression from antis who think they can take me.

For male attracted pedophiles, a blue spiral triangle design is called, as you might imagine, the BLogo.

YouthRightsRadical wrote:By "flirting", they're usually talking about the fact that I make eye contact with them, smile at them and elicit smiles in return, occasionally make funny faces to make them laugh. I like making them happy.

As to the GLogo it is a spiral heart design, usually done in pink. A google image search will turn it up pretty quickly. The name is derived from "Girl Lover logo".

Some female attracted pedophiles, such as myself, use it as a symbol to identify ourselves. Various hate groups are also aware of this symbol, so I wear it out in public as a kind of "gang colors" to tell my fellow pedophiles I'm one of them, and to invite aggression from antis who think they can take me.

For male attracted pedophiles, a blue spiral triangle design is called, as you might imagine, the BLogo.

Oh god, in that case I flirt with almost every little kid I can manage to make eye contact with XD it feels great when they actually smile or wave back at you. And with regards to the shirt; wow mad respect. That takes balls to be totally comfortable advertising who you are. And it's much classier than the pedobear bumper sticker which I hate with a burning passion.

Oh and Gerste, you and I share the same exact views on Rupert Murdoch and Fox News.

BlackStrat wrote:Oh god, in that case I flirt with almost every little kid I can manage to make eye contact with XD it feels great when they actually smile or wave back at you.

It really does.

BlackStrat wrote:And with regards to the shirt; wow mad respect. That takes balls to be totally comfortable advertising who you are.

Thanks. Unfortunately, the shirt's been worn so often, the logo's gotten pretty faded. And it was never really that visible in the first place, since I made the mistake of pink on a white background. I need to have a new one made up on a black t-shirt for better contrast.

BlackStrat wrote:And it's much classier than the pedobear bumper sticker which I hate with a burning passion.

It really is a pity that 4chan meme is the more recognizable symbol.

Oh I see. For all they know you could have been saying those things to cover up the fact that you're a-sexual or you weren't sure at the time and wanted to fit in, but you know your friends and I don't though so. Some people just aren't the flirty type, it's normal for someone not to be.

Do you think they would they be accepting of you if you told them the truth?