Dating a girl who appears younger?

I've been talking to this girl. She's 18. Thing is that she's very short (5'0-1") and looks very young. She looks like she could be 14. Even younger if you just look at her body. In case you haven't caught on, I'm attracted to underage girls. Would it be logical for me to date her? I think I see it as legally dating a mature minor. Problem is that I think people might get the wrong picture since, like I said, she looks like she's around 13-14. What do you think of this whole scenario?

My girlfriend is 17 but is 4'11" and has the face of a 12 year old (well, she used to anyway). About the only thing that gives away her age is her chest, which is properly developed. To be honest I don't think you have anything to wory about.

I don't think your in any sort of trouble. I also wouldn't say that anyone is thinking "Oh look, that guy must be a pedophile", or what have you, simply because the person your with looks younger than you.

My fiance is 25 and looks like she's underage (under 18). Actually, we're both that way. If I shave and haven't cut my hair for a month and a half, we both look under 18. Despite some giveaways (we both have athletic builds, and she has a large chest), we still get ID'ed for everything. In fact, this year we had went to a public pool and were ID'ed... you needed to be at least 14 to enter without an adult That was a bad one!

Never the less, most people don't have it in their minds that everyone's a potential pedophile. I would say the only thing an average person would judge, based on a couple, were to be if the male is unattractive, older, or severely overweight, and the female was very attractive, that that would mean he must have money. That would be the only thing that people, in general, may judge a couple for.

I think it's more of a paranoia part when it comes to having paraphilias. I even sometimes have to look "inconspicuous" around some dogs (as I am a Zoophile), as I don't want to appear as if I am attracted to someone's dog. In reality, though, only other zoophiles are looking for that behavior in other people. While we're on the topic, don't ever get a tattoo of paw prints facing your groin on your hip bones, that's a pretty obvious sign of a zoophile

Ghost147 wrote:I don't think your in any sort of trouble. I also wouldn't say that anyone is thinking "Oh look, that guy must be a pedophile", or what have you, simply because the person your with looks younger than you.

My fiance is 25 and looks like she's underage (under 18). Actually, we're both that way. If I shave and haven't cut my hair for a month and a half, we both look under 18. Despite some giveaways (we both have athletic builds, and she has a large chest), we still get ID'ed for everything. In fact, this year we had went to a public pool and were ID'ed... you needed to be at least 14 to enter without an adult That was a bad one!

Never the less, most people don't have it in their minds that everyone's a potential pedophile. I would say the only thing an average person would judge, based on a couple, were to be if the male is unattractive, older, or severely overweight, and the female was very attractive, that that would mean he must have money. That would be the only thing that people, in general, may judge a couple for.

I think it's more of a paranoia part when it comes to having paraphilias. I even sometimes have to look "inconspicuous" around some dogs (as I am a Zoophile), as I don't want to appear as if I am attracted to someone's dog. In reality, though, only other zoophiles are looking for that behavior in other people. While we're on the topic, don't ever get a tattoo of paw prints facing your groin on your hip bones, that's a pretty obvious sign of a zoophile

I agree that paranoia's a big factor, but society itself is paranoid. Someone walks near a child, people assume they're a pedophile. We go to school together, but i'm worried people will get the wrong picture. Regarding the zoophilia. I personally would never assume someone's a zoophile. If someone were to give my dog a considerable amount of attention, then I'd assume they just admire animals. If someone was staring at my child (if I had one), then pedophilia would be a likely assumption.

It's difficult to say as it would be subjective per-couple, according to both your appearences. If you're both in school, then you yourself probably don't look excessively old. I assume your in highschool, or freshmen year in collage (no need to correct me if i'm wrong). Either way, you probably look like a teenager or early 20's guy, yourself. Even if she looks much younger than her age, the worst case scenario is that they view it as an inappropriate age difference (as in an 18 year old dating a 30 year old, type issue), not a pedophilic issue. It would be problematic if you looked like you were in your 30's or older, as then people may make the "pedophile" conclusion.

It isn't the same as pedophilia but for those who can't stop thinking about underaged girls it might be the best legal solution you can find for your problem.

I've always dated girls that looked younger (under legal age) and when I was under 18 I dated girls that looked much younger (even though they weren't). My wife was 23 and in graduate school when we met, but she looked about 12 or 13 (though with large breasts). That was the first thing that attracted me to her!

My SO is frequently mistaken for my daughter. It is biologically plausible that is the case, but honestly sometimes if it's illegal to have what you want, have what makes you happy and remains legal. For me, younger women generally fit this bill.

ReVamp wrote:I've been talking to this girl. She's 18. Thing is that she's very short (5'0-1") and looks very young. She looks like she could be 14. Even younger if you just look at her body. In case you haven't caught on, I'm attracted to underage girls. Would it be logical for me to date her? I think I see it as legally dating a mature minor. Problem is that I think people might get the wrong picture since, like I said, she looks like she's around 13-14. What do you think of this whole scenario?

enjoy it, you got the best of both worlds, you can do what you want with her and no1 can stop you.

I'd think that she might be a good match for you.