fantasizing about my mum.

hi, ever since around the age of 20 ive have fantasized about having sex with my mum, I know that sounds strange ha, but its true I cant help it, anyway im 29 now and have been thinking about if there is a chance it could happen for real, like could she really be aroused at the idea herself? ive tried to convince myself she could be.. now I really cant see myself asking her of course lol, so im in a pickle.. I do not live with my mum any more but she is only around the corner so I see her often...so ive told myself that I want it to happen, what I would like to know is how can I improve my chances, if there are anyway that is...

when I was around the age of 14 I accidently saw my mums $&## when she was sitting down with a short skirt on, i had a full view lol, she was shaved, it was a shock but also it looked really nice, also is this normal, when i was about 17 and still living at home, she would sometimes come in to my room in the morning to sleep in my brothers bed after he went to work because we were going through a time where we only had one bedroom so she had to sleep on the couch, anyway she would either sleep on his bed or on the floor close to mine, she did this in just a tshirt and a pair of knickers, is this normal? gosh back then i wasn't even fussed and didn't bother to make anything of it.

what do you all think? i would really appreciate your views and hope to help me

The only thing I can think of is the Oedipus Complex.

i have a incest fetish and never thought much about things like this

It is very very unlikely that your mother will want to have sex with you even if you were the last man on the earth. Even if you were the hottest man alive she still would not want to have sex with you because almost everyone has an inbuilt repulsion to thoughts of having sex with close biological relatives. If you make a sexual advance on your mother it is extremely likely that you will get rejected and she may never want to see you again or at least she will always feel very very awkward around you.

It is not normal to get sexually aroused by your mother's vagina. I find adult women attractive and I have seen my mother naked many times and I have never had any sexual attraction to my mother at all whatsoever. The reason your mother slept in knickers in a separate bed beside you was because she was sleeping. Lots of normal people sleep in their underwear! It is normal and non-sexual!! She did not coverup her legs in bed because she did not feel the need to because she will assume you have normal sexual thoughts and have no interest in her.

My message may sound harsh but it needs to be said. What would you rather? A harsh reality based message or causing untold damage to the relationship with your mother? Also you may damage relations with other family members if you come onto your mum and your mum tells other family members - they may want nothing to do with you and will shun you. There is a microscopic chance that she is sexually interested in you. It is up to you whether you take the risk and try to hook up with her. It is also against the law such relationships. I advise against you making such a move! Having sexual thoughts towards your mother does not on its own make you a horrible person. Every person on this earth experiences corrupt thoughts whether they sexual or non-sexual. You simply have a perversion that you need to control for your own good as well as your mother's good. You asked for a response and you got one. I am sorry it is not the response that you wanted but you really do need a dose of strong reality.

I disagree. I am a healthy, "normal" guy who also has a fantasy about getting my mother in bed. Oedipus Schmedipus....a waste of time as an explanation. There are documented cases where a mother son sexual relationship was arousing and satisfactory for both parties. There are always exceptions to the rule. I say if the two parties are willing to take the risk, then do it.

Worried Man wrote:I disagree. I am a healthy, "normal" guy who also has a fantasy about getting my mother in bed. Oedipus Schmedipus....a waste of time as an explanation. There are documented cases where a mother son sexual relationship was arousing and satisfactory for both parties. There are always exceptions to the rule. I say if the two parties are willing to take the risk, then do it.

I quite agree and being an avid incest fantasist, having an attraction to my mum and in love with my cousin I and we can quite understand the feeling you have not just about your mother but also about your chances with here.

As much as I would love something to happen between me and my mum I will never tell her anything because something like this is delicate. You will always be her son and will always love you but you have to keep in mind that despite this things can change and become uncomfortable for both you and her if you where to tell her or tried to put yourselves into a situation so I think care is need.

Parents in general can have those attractions and I myself have a friend that is openly in an incestuous relationship with both her mother and father, she is 32 this year. Just remember that because someone can does not mean they do.

If you are asking weather your mum's behavior is "normal" quite frankly yes. I am sure there are 100's of thousand parents out there who walk around in just a top or their underwear or even nothing as my mum does from time to time. Not every parent does but I do think it is a normal part of life for the most part so it is probably best not to read to much into it.

Hope this may help you, my inbox is always open if you need it.

Tulula.

Having an incestuous relationship at 32 with both mother and father must be very rare. I take it she told you? Mother-daughter incest is probably the rarest form. How did it all start? Who initiated? Can it go on?

A lot of us understand what you are feeling you are like us. I had affairs with both of my sister, several cousins and an aunt. I've had fantasies of my mother and father. My girlfriend had an affair with her dad from a young age until his death. She also had a affair with her daughter. We are both hoping that her daughter will join us both sometime soon!

Xnasty wrote:A lot of us understand what you are feeling you are like us. I had affairs with both of my sister, several cousins and an aunt. I've had fantasies of my mother and father. My girlfriend had an affair with her dad from a young age until his death. She also had a affair with her daughter. We are both hoping that her daughter will join us both sometime soon!

Wow man, no offence but your life seems to have brought up from a porn film!