My Reasons for Being Here

So I posted my first forum last night... and it seems like people misinterpreted what I was looking for. I am not here to just look for other pedophiles to date. I really do want to use this site for its intended purposes. Namely, I want to find an outlet for my pedophilic desires. So to get things off to a fresh start, I'd like for this forum to be a place for pedophiles to share about the types of outlets they have found for their attractions. I, myself, have only been able to fantasize in my head alone, but it's getting to a point where the desires are becoming too much to handle. How have you managed to indulge in your desires without breaking the law or harming a child? I'm open to hearing about any coping techniques that you all have had success with, because I'm honestly at the point where I don't think I'll ever get past my pedophilic urges and I am learning to accept this as part of my identity... I just want to learn how to be a pedophile and live a decent life. Any input provided would be GREATLY appreciated...

Well...personal acceptance is a really good first step. I know I'm a decent person. Pedophilia is just a part of me that I did not choose and I cannot control that.

For that reason, I absolutely refuse to be ashamed or embarrassed. Just careful.

xoPinkerbelleox wrote:Well...personal acceptance is a really good first step. I know I'm a decent person. Pedophilia is just a part of me that I did not choose and I cannot control that.

For that reason, I absolutely refuse to be ashamed or embarrassed. Just careful.

Rationalizations are reserved for people who are looking to molest children but at the same time don't want to be held culpable for their crimes against another human being. They're used by people who want to commit wrongdoings, but don't want to be held accountable for those wrongdoings. Pedophilia itself doesn't make you a bad person and isn't a reason to feel ashamed or embarrassed.