Chemical castration via depo provera

One of my best friends is a girl and she used to really like me a lot, maybe even loved me, but I really messed things up with her because of something I did because of my urges. I have trouble controlling myself around her often. I'll have periods of having no attraction to her at all and then one night I wont be able to control myself. Luckily she stops me most of the time but when she doesn't I feel terrible but eventually she forgives me. I feel like if I can't find a way to help myself soon that she wont continue being friends with me and she is the only friend I have (currently going to an independent learning program).

I looked into getting a chemical castration via depo provera but I am worried about having feminizing effects. I don't think I could talk to a doctor or even a therapist about what I've done or about getting depo provera. I was thinking about having her order it and having her inject it if it's a possibility. Does this sound like a good idea? I've looked around online and many people say that it's helped them. I want to make sure it's reversible if it's ever a possibility that I could have children with her. Thank you guys in advance for your input!

USteenrdm wrote:One of my best friends is a girl and she used to really like me a lot, maybe even loved me, but I really messed things up with her because of something I did because of my urges. I have trouble controlling myself around her often. I'll have periods of having no attraction to her at all and then one night I wont be able to control myself. Luckily she stops me most of the time but when she doesn't I feel terrible but eventually she forgives me. I feel like if I can't find a way to help myself soon that she wont continue being friends with me and she is the only friend I have (currently going to an independent learning program).

I looked into getting a chemical castration via depo provera but I am worried about having feminizing effects. I don't think I could talk to a doctor or even a therapist about what I've done or about getting depo provera. I was thinking about having her order it and having her inject it if it's a possibility. Does this sound like a good idea? I've looked around online and many people say that it's helped them. I want to make sure it's reversible if it's ever a possibility that I could have children with her. Thank you guys in advance for your input!

Dude... buddy... hold up just a second now. Do NOT go shooting sparrows with cannons. Reducing your testosterone levels will lead to an imbalance leading to what you would perceive as feminizing effects, such as a lower libido but maybe also other things as this is individual.

I see your dilemma, which sucks! No doubt about that! But have you thought about giving therapy a chance? Anonymous phonelines? Self-control excersises?

I'm just in the opinion that chemical castration shouldn't be fluffed around with like it was tic-tacs!

My advice? Have you two set up a meeting and talk stuff out. Plan the meeting well ahead, ask eachother what you enjoy from eachothers presence, make lists and give them to eachother and from this list, you will see the things she likes about you, but that you will lose should you one day go too far. Explain to her how you feel, tell her the thoughts you've been having and try to solve it together as a team!

If the above mentioned works you will have had a chance to improve your friendship, you will have gained an ally in combating what seems to be a very powerful libido and you will have avoided the long term complications of chemical treatment. If the talk doesn't work, then that's a problem for tomorrow.

Give it a shot man The power of conversation has saved many a life (and testicle) through the ages

ineedhope wrote:Dude... buddy... hold up just a second now. Do NOT go shooting sparrows with cannons. Reducing your testosterone levels will lead to an imbalance leading to what you would perceive as feminizing effects, such as a lower libido but maybe also other things as this is individual.

I see your dilemma, which sucks! No doubt about that! But have you thought about giving therapy a chance? Anonymous phonelines? Self-control excersises?

I'm just in the opinion that chemical castration shouldn't be fluffed around with like it was tic-tacs!

My advice? Have you two set up a meeting and talk stuff out. Plan the meeting well ahead, ask eachother what you enjoy from eachothers presence, make lists and give them to eachother and from this list, you will see the things she likes about you, but that you will lose should you one day go too far. Explain to her how you feel, tell her the thoughts you've been having and try to solve it together as a team!

If the above mentioned works you will have had a chance to improve your friendship, you will have gained an ally in combating what seems to be a very powerful libido and you will have avoided the long term complications of chemical treatment. If the talk doesn't work, then that's a problem for tomorrow.

Give it a shot man The power of conversation has saved many a life (and testicle) through the ages

Okay thank you! I was kind of freaking out a bit because It was a recent occurrence. I didn't think about things like the meeting Idea and it sounds like a really good one to me. I will think about more things like that to try too. I was jumping to extremes because I was so upset about loosing it after quite a while of being okay. Thanks for this post though it helps bring me back down some.

When I was referring to feminizing effects the only thing I was really worried about was growing breasts and being able to go back to having some kind of sex drive. Are there any other long lasting effects in case things don't work out?

USteenrdm wrote:

ineedhope wrote:Dude... buddy... hold up just a second now. Do NOT go shooting sparrows with cannons. Reducing your testosterone levels will lead to an imbalance leading to what you would perceive as feminizing effects, such as a lower libido but maybe also other things as this is individual.

I see your dilemma, which sucks! No doubt about that! But have you thought about giving therapy a chance? Anonymous phonelines? Self-control excersises?

I'm just in the opinion that chemical castration shouldn't be fluffed around with like it was tic-tacs!

My advice? Have you two set up a meeting and talk stuff out. Plan the meeting well ahead, ask eachother what you enjoy from eachothers presence, make lists and give them to eachother and from this list, you will see the things she likes about you, but that you will lose should you one day go too far. Explain to her how you feel, tell her the thoughts you've been having and try to solve it together as a team!

If the above mentioned works you will have had a chance to improve your friendship, you will have gained an ally in combating what seems to be a very powerful libido and you will have avoided the long term complications of chemical treatment. If the talk doesn't work, then that's a problem for tomorrow.

Give it a shot man The power of conversation has saved many a life (and testicle) through the ages

Okay thank you! I was kind of freaking out a bit because It was a recent occurrence. I didn't think about things like the meeting Idea and it sounds like a really good one to me. I will think about more things like that to try too. I was jumping to extremes because I was so upset about loosing it after quite a while of being okay. Thanks for this post though it helps bring me back down some.

When I was referring to feminizing effects the only thing I was really worried about was growing breasts and being able to go back to having some kind of sex drive. Are there any other long lasting effects in case things don't work out?

Hard to say as this is up to the individual, and I'm no physician. Though there is a chance that you might be getting small 'breasts' (moobs) if you are overweight to begin with, this chance increases. You may also find achange in your personality, a slowed beard growth and perhaps even a brighter voice but all these things are maybes.

IF it all comes tumbling down, please please please go see a physician or a pharmaceut and discuss what the effects may be.

Good luck!

You may like reading this thread which deals with voluntary chemical castration

If you have to spend time around her, might I suggest timing your masturbation sessions so that they occur just prior? And why would anyone want to have kids?

I myself was desperate to help control my thoughts and feelings. I obtained Depo-provera from swiss online pharmacy. No script needed. I have been on it for 5 months now. See zero I'll unwanted effects, no feminizing effects on me so fat. Just near zero sex drive. I can and do still get aroused, but its at a much lower and controlled level.

If you think you need it. then try it! If its not working like you want it will totally go away after 3 months. all effects should reverse totally on their own. There are effecta come from long term use that are still of some concern. My current plan is to be in it a year at a time, with 3-6 month breaks to counteract the long term issues.

If you can't find it online, private message me and I will track down the link for you.