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Re: Just do it.

Postby Zebramouse » Tue Nov 12, 2013 4:33 pm

SpecialCuteHugs wrote:Well I guess I shouldn't have expected a suicidal person to listen to reason.

Real funny.

Hey Simon, Mind if I join you in puppyland? :wink:
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Re: Just do it.

Postby Simontheo » Tue Nov 12, 2013 4:53 pm

Zebramouse wrote:
SpecialCuteHugs wrote:Well I guess I shouldn't have expected a suicidal person to listen to reason.

Real funny.

Hey Simon, Mind if I join you in puppyland? :wink:


Hey, how you know I'd read this -.- Of course not! :3 You would love it!
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Re: Just do it.

Postby SpecialCuteHugs » Tue Nov 12, 2013 7:15 pm

Zebramouse wrote:
SpecialCuteHugs wrote:Well I guess I shouldn't have expected a suicidal person to listen to reason.

Real funny.

Hey Simon, Mind if I join you in puppyland? :wink:

Damn, I'm sorry. I wrote that post 5 minutes after waking up from a bad sleep. I should NOT have said something like that.
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Re: Just do it.

Postby Simontheo » Wed Nov 13, 2013 11:16 am

SpecialCuteHugs wrote:
Zebramouse wrote:
SpecialCuteHugs wrote:Well I guess I shouldn't have expected a suicidal person to listen to reason.

Real funny.

Hey Simon, Mind if I join you in puppyland? :wink:

Damn, I'm sorry. I wrote that post 5 minutes after waking up from a bad sleep. I should NOT have said something like that.


Come on now. Everyone slips up after bad sleep, I do it everyday so it's no biggie hehe.

May I have a cute hug? :oops:
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Re: Just do it.

Postby Zebramouse » Wed Nov 13, 2013 11:52 am

SpecialCuteHugs wrote:
Zebramouse wrote:
SpecialCuteHugs wrote:Well I guess I shouldn't have expected a suicidal person to listen to reason.

Real funny.

Hey Simon, Mind if I join you in puppyland? :wink:

Damn, I'm sorry. I wrote that post 5 minutes after waking up from a bad sleep. I should NOT have said something like that.


Don't worry about it.
I must admit, I was in a real bad mood the other night. I'm not always such a downer.
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Re: Just do it.

Postby SpecialCuteHugs » Wed Nov 13, 2013 4:42 pm

Special cute hugs for everyone.
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Re: Just do it.

Postby Simontheo » Wed Nov 13, 2013 7:41 pm

SpecialCuteHugs wrote:Special cute hugs for everyone.


Yay! Thank you :3 I love hugs *runs around*
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Re: Just do it.

Postby Neverfeelaccepted » Thu Nov 14, 2013 8:50 pm

Zebramouse wrote:Seriously mods? You removed the picture and links? Its the ugly truth. People kill themselves over this. I'm pretty sure a lot of us here have considered it. I know I have.


I have considered it as well.
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Re: Just do it.

Postby HesDeltanCaptain » Thu Nov 14, 2013 8:52 pm

Glad it's gone. Actually move the slider down before the page finishes loading so I don't have to see it.
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Re: Just do it.

Postby ElKahn » Fri Nov 15, 2013 5:57 pm

Recognizing pedophilia as a sexual orientation would mean protecting pedophiles against sexual orientation-based discriminations, but I doubt today's society would allow this. Even though society is becoming much more accepting and open about certain matters, pedophilia still remains a taboo in most societies and we should also consider religion and morals here.

Until psychiatry continues to embrace cultural elements in its books and its definitions, there are very few possibilities for pedophilia to be erased from DSM as a mental disorder and be classified and accepted as a sexual orientation.

I firmly believe pedophilia is not a mental disorder as pedophilia alone does not cause significant impairments in someone's life and it does not compromise cerebral functions. Of course pedophilia can cause severe depression and even suicidial thoughts and behavior, but that would be a symptom of depression induced by pedophilia, and not a direct consequence of pedophilia.

While a schizophrenic, for example, is not able to tell what's real and what's in their mind, a pedophile is fully capable of functioning, unless the pedophile has some illness that prevent him from functioning.
To me, it is right to consider a schizophrenic a mentally ill person, but I'm not okay with the definition of pedophilia as a mental disorder for the reasons I mentioned.

It is ridiculous that psychiatry still is influenced by social and cultural norms. If it is a science, it has to be scientific, not cultural. A cultural value should not influence a psychiatric definition, as science and cultural values must be kept separated. A cultural value is not scientifically valid.

I hope the point is clear.

Sexual orientation vs sexual interest - what's the difference here? I don't get it.
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