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Small penis link with masochism?

Postby KevinG31 » Wed Nov 06, 2013 6:51 am

I've been wondering if having a small penis plays a factor in a man being into masochistic humiliation?

I have a small penis and I've actually been laughed at many times in public restrooms and hospitals when other men have seen how tiny my penis is. Whenever I have glanced at other men's penises in public restrooms (although it is considered bad social etiquette to do this) I am amazed at how long and thick their penises are compared to mine, I feel so humiliated by their superiority to me in this area that it causes me to feel submissive homosexual feelings toward them. I think having a small penis has caused a lot of my intense gay tendencies that I never wanted to have. It has also played a role in my crossdressing, I put myself in women's clothes to punish myself for not being manly enough. I have emasculating fantasies that my penis shrinks and becomes smaller.

I can't figure out how this happened, I've seen all of the penises of my male relatives at one point or another and all of them have large adult sized thick penises while I have the penis of a kid!!! :oops:
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Re: Small penis link with masochism?

Postby HesDeltanCaptain » Wed Nov 06, 2013 6:57 am

Physical size of your penis isn't going to have anything to do with what sex you're into. How you think about and react to it will though. When not arroused penises are supposed to be small. If a penis is full length most fo the time I'd say there's something wrong. When unarroused myself my penis is literally an inch or so long. But I know how big wide and thick it is when erect so it's nothing I worry about. As the saying goes, "I'm a grower, not a shower." :) When guys penises are long and full that's because blood's going to it and they're partially arroused. Basically it means they're getting turned on in the presence of other naked guys. This is fine n all but worrying your's isn't isn't anything to stress yourself out about, just means you're more hetero than they are.
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Re: Small penis link with masochism?

Postby airwolffan » Wed Nov 06, 2013 4:25 pm

They come in all shapes and sizes, but they all do the same job, some are show'ers some are growers its a fact of life. Smaller ones grown more larger ones grow less when erect. Every guy worries about their penis size anyone who says they don't is a ######6 liar. And remember it's about how you use it not how big it is.
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Re: Small penis link with masochism?

Postby simgiran » Wed Nov 06, 2013 5:49 pm

I can't exclude there is come correlation, but certainly it's not too strong. I used to chat on one website for sadists and masochists and you could upload pictures to your profile, I've seen a lot of masochists with average or above average penis. However, for a lot of men the penis size seems to a sensitive area and a lot of masochists can enjoys the fantasy of being laughed due to penis size.

Anyway, I am definitely more masochistic than sadistic and I have penis 17 cm long erected and 9 cm long flaccid.
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Re: Small penis link with masochism?

Postby Simontheo » Thu Nov 07, 2013 2:53 pm

KevinG31 wrote:I've been wondering if having a small penis plays a factor in a man being into masochistic humiliation?

I have a small penis and I've actually been laughed at many times in public restrooms and hospitals when other men have seen how tiny my penis is. Whenever I have glanced at other men's penises in public restrooms (although it is considered bad social etiquette to do this) I am amazed at how long and thick their penises are compared to mine, I feel so humiliated by their superiority to me in this area that it causes me to feel submissive homosexual feelings toward them. I think having a small penis has caused a lot of my intense gay tendencies that I never wanted to have. It has also played a role in my crossdressing, I put myself in women's clothes to punish myself for not being manly enough. I have emasculating fantasies that my penis shrinks and becomes smaller.

I can't figure out how this happened, I've seen all of the penises of my male relatives at one point or another and all of them have large adult sized thick penises while I have the penis of a kid!!! :oops:


Hey hey, come on now. Don't be like that, don't punish yourself! It has nothing to do with being manly or not. :) Size don't matter, and mine is small too, but it grows. Those guys who have bigger ones when flacid probably don't grow much :) And nothing wrong with having the penis of a kid!!! it's kinda exciting :oops: So be happy!
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Re: Small penis link with masochism?

Postby xoPinkerbelleox » Sat Nov 09, 2013 8:08 am

hm...

I've been with some sadists who were TINY. Like...I didn't even care whether or not there was penetration because it didn't do much good anyway tiny. Then I have a submissive/masochist who's been with me since high school and he is...a very gifted man. So no. I don't think it is really a HUGE link, but I agree that there is a link there.

For what it's worth...even though size really kinda matters, it helps if you're good at other things.
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Re: Small penis link with masochism?

Postby pedo_dido » Thu Mar 06, 2014 11:42 am

I don't know exactly how it develops, but there seems to be some correlation between small penises and masochistic/cuckoldry/transvestism
voyeursm/acquired bisexuality.

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Do you have a girlfriend/wife? Would you like her to be with someone who has a bigger penis instead? masochistic tendencies are often a characteristic of a sissy cuckold who have small penises.

When I was still with my first girlfriend, I would fantasize how her friends would humiliate me because of my less than adequate penis.
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Re: Small penis link with masochism?

Postby Endymion » Thu Mar 06, 2014 12:58 pm

I suspect that masochistic tendencies develop in early childhood, when all boys have little maggots. So I suspect there's a bit of cum hoc ergo propter hoc-type association here.
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