Showing off my 11 yo neice turns me on... why?

Hi. I have some strange questions and i`m very glad i`ve found this forum. First of all, i live in Scandinavia, so pardon my spell-errors

Well, back to my question (s)

I have a beautiful young neice which is just starting to develope. She is tall for her age, and she is starting to bloom. Nothing strange about this
BUT: I get VERY turned on when we are at our mall and i`m walking next to her, and i notice other grown men are looking at her.
Last week i bought her a pair of really tight jeans, and a short tight top that shows off her midriff. When walking next to her i ger arroused when i notice other men are looking her direction.
I almost feel like her "pimp" and i love it.
Sometimes i just send her to order some icecream and i sit at my table in safe distance and scout to see if other men are noticing her...
Once i saw a couple of men (about 40+) checking her out... they was just "eyeballing" her, but i knew what they was thinking...

A big part of getting turned on this way is getting her dressed up in inapprioate clothes and taking her out to the mall, just to show her off....
I do this all the time when i have the opportunity.
Her mother works a lot, and i`m looking after my neice a few hours a week.
I use this opportunity to buy clothes to her that i know will fit her well.... but in a "slutty" way...
I would never molest her, but knowing other men would turns me on...

What do you think about this? I actually think my neice loves the attention, but not for the same reason as me...

She loves shopping (of course) and buying clothes for her turns me on big time.
Later on when we come home i drop her off at her mothers house and i go back to my home and (pardon language) jerk off thinking back on how many men have eye-balled her while she is walking through the mall....

This has become a ritual for me, and i`m not breaking any laws, except the moral standards...
I would love to know why i think this way, and why i do. Pls. give me feedback, good as bad, but not rude as i just have opened myself to others at this forum...

PM me if you want!

Best regards,
J.

Please excuse if this doesn't make sense, sometimes I'm not goid at explanations...

Well, my best thought on the matter would be that it's because, as with any 'normal couple' if a man is walking down the street with his woman and she's dressed slutty and other guys look their automatic thought would be that while the other guy can look she still 'belongs' to him and he gets to do more. And I think that on some level, although you don't get to do more it's a similar reaction. A kina of "yea, she's beautiful, and she's mine" as you're very aware of how she's dressed and you're looking by proxy through other people so you're checking her out by seeing the gazes of others cheching her out and seeing the approval on their faces.

If that makes sense? Please, ask for clarification if needed and I'll do my best.

At the expense of seeming a little crude, I believe that the answer to such questions lies in what triggers orgasm. What is it that makes you come when jerking off with the fantasies you mentioned? Are you picturing her? Or do you get aroused by the men?

Thanks for very interesting reply. I believe that I can relate to the first respond. It is kind of feeling that she is mine... Other men can only look, but not touch, while my sexual fantasies is her being used by other. I guess I jerk off to the thought that I can't molest her without going to jail,but a stranger can do whatever's he wants with her. I love her,but still I get turned on by the thought of her being molester by a strange

I don't know why, but it has something to do with the fact that she is so beautiful and innocent. It is a big contrast to her being used by filthy men. Maybe I deep in my soul hope she likes it, and she is turning into a slug?

Is it only me that loves to show off young family members? No fathers or mothers or uncles that feel the same as me?

-- Tue Nov 05, 2013 4:49 pm --

Is it only me that loves to show off young family members? No fathers or mothers or uncles that feel the same as me?

I have no idea why you get arroused doing this. To understand I'd have to be able to relate and I can't. That said, if I were to imagine such a scenario I'd think some of the things you're feeling are an authority over her. I think deep down, or not so deep down, many of us like the idea of returning to a previous era where men dominate women and use them for our pleasure. Because she's family, you're wrestling with the desire to have her for yourself, but haven't gotten there in your mind yet so are using her in a proxy way. If she were to come on to you somehow I think you'd avail yourself of the offer, but right now are making due with what you feel you can get away with. If she were your daughter, it'd be even harder for you to do these things or have these thoughts, but because she's a niece it feels more acceptable.

I'd caution you against continuing with this and advise you to consider the very near future when she begins puberty in earnest. Whether you say anything overtly to her about what's going on or not, everything you're doing is settling into her longterm memory and at some point she'll understand what you're doing. And unless you wanna risk being 'turned out' leading her into a life of sexual submission to men or even becomming a prostitute I'd knock it off.

HesDeltanCaptain wrote: leading her into a life of sexual submission to men or even becomming a prostitute I'd knock it off.

Realy think that's a bit OTT, highly unlikely it will lead to either of those, not to mention there is nothing wrong with being a sub. Ok, prostitution probably isn't a good place to go, but in my honest opinion, what he's doing will not lead to that. Gotta be pretty desperate to end up there from a good life, which, from what we know -granted that's not much- it sounds like she's doing alright and has a loving family. Yes, it might be a good idea to stop his actions, but just generally because she might, at some point figure it out.

i will never do something that will get her hurt, physically or mentally. I guess its all in my mind, my fantasies... And i dont think she will be damaged just by me showing her off.. Its more like a turn on for me.

earlier you mentioned you hoped she liked it and was becoming a 'slug' what is that?
also I really beg you not to do that anymore because its not only wrong but if your niece ever picked up on any hint of you sexualising her it could really damage her life and children are more perceptive than you think