confusedperson812 wrote:Okay I haven't mentioned this one before but when I associate with the 12 year old boys that I do not harm:
They read me. And I kind of like it. I need to be read as to destroy anything tainted inside of me.
They create their own worlds that I am willing to sit with them and be a part of. Their creativity is unmatched.
People get bored of them or reject them, and I can't stand that. They know I will do anything for them because I respect them so much.
I have to agree, though I think that adults can sometimes retain those sorts of personalities if people may have been bored with them or rejected them during childhood. I for one have always been in my own little world for most of my life, feeling misunderstood and ignored too often. If anything though, I think it has given me a uniquely open and accepting personality as an adult--perhaps less "tainted", so to speak--than a lot of people I've come to know. I can sit there and genuinely listen to people, and I've been told I have a very calming and soothing presence, even if I don't say anything but just because I listen and I'm very patient.
As a child, I came to expect the same of others and still cherish if other people give me the time and attentiveness to listen. Unfortunately, it seems to be a rare quality in most adults nowadays, and that always frustrated me as a child, so I understand where you're coming from.
It's very eye-opening at times just to listen to kids and teens talk about their feelings and views on the world that are not yet biased and staunchly opinionated, and I always pray many of them retain that sense of individuality, but sadly, teens are cruel and that's when most people end up "growing up", or as I would more accurately term it, "de-evolving" in most cases.
Those who continue to march to their own drum deserve all the time and attention due to them, because honestly in that manner, I do see most kids as superior to adults. It's the transition to adulthood I always worry about. People do change, but its not always for the best.
-- Sun Sep 22, 2013 5:59 am --
confusedperson812 wrote:Okay I haven't mentioned this one before but when I associate with the 12 year old boys that I do not harm:
They read me. And I kind of like it. I need to be read as to destroy anything tainted inside of me.
They create their own worlds that I am willing to sit with them and be a part of. Their creativity is unmatched.
People get bored of them or reject them, and I can't stand that. They know I will do anything for them because I respect them so much.
I have to agree, though I think that adults can sometimes retain those sorts of personalities if people may have been bored with them or rejected them during childhood. I for one have always been in my own little world for most of my life, feeling misunderstood and ignored too often. If anything though, I think it has given me a uniquely open and accepting personality as an adult--perhaps less "tainted", so to speak--than a lot of people I've come to know. I can sit there and genuinely listen to people, and I've been told I have a very calming and soothing presence, even if I don't say anything but just because I listen and I'm very patient.
As a child, I came to expect the same of others and still cherish if other people give me the time and attentiveness to listen. Unfortunately, it seems to be a rare quality in most adults nowadays, and that always frustrated me as a child, so I understand where you're coming from.
It's very eye-opening at times just to listen to kids and teens talk about their feelings and views on the world that are not yet biased and staunchly opinionated, and I always pray many of them retain that sense of individuality, but sadly, teens are cruel and that's when most people end up "growing up", or as I would more accurately term it, "de-evolving" in most cases.
Those who continue to march to their own drum deserve all the time and attention due to them, because honestly in that manner, I do see most kids as superior to adults. It's the transition to adulthood I always worry about. People do change, but its not always for the best.
If you love a flower, don't pick it up. Because if you pick it up, it dies, and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation. - Osho