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why not kill ourselves? *possible trigger

Postby phils » Fri Aug 09, 2013 12:08 am

I'm an ephebophile. why don;t we just kill ourselves? The whole world seems to agree that carryng out our fantasies would only hurt their subjects. So why not just kill yourself as soon as you realize this is who you are? You might as well. I mean sure, you may say you "would never" or "couldn't," but simple statistics tells you that someone is lying and it may very well be YOU. kThe only way to guarantee you won't ###$ up some young girl's life is to die. Tell me your thoughts.
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Re: why not kill ourselves? *possible trigger

Postby 87gurl » Fri Aug 09, 2013 6:48 pm

Sometimes i feel the same way, even though im attracted more to boys.
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Re: why not kill ourselves? *possible trigger

Postby airwolffan » Fri Aug 09, 2013 7:30 pm

It depends on how much your cherish life and care about people you truly love. Killing yourself is a cowards way out and leaves destruction in the lives of those who do care and love you.

Just my thoughts on it.
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Postby mitvade » Fri Aug 09, 2013 8:30 pm

Think how many people you will hurt by killing yourself?
By the way, I enjoy my life very much, and that is probably, because I'm not a 'penis', Penis is only one of the organs of my body - very precious, but still - just one.
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Re: why not kill ourselves? *possible trigger

Postby Tabs » Fri Aug 09, 2013 9:24 pm

Seen too many innocent people kill themselves already.
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Re: why not kill ourselves? *possible trigger

Postby Siamese Fever » Fri Aug 09, 2013 11:10 pm

Not worth it.
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Re: why not kill ourselves? *possible trigger

Postby callano » Fri Aug 09, 2013 11:49 pm

I wouldn't because I don't agree with everyone's opinion that they should be killed, nor do I even see myself as a threat. Besides, that would be letting them win, I value my own life more than I care what the ignorant masses think of me. It's their problem, not mine. Besides being an ephebophile is not even that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things, many have argued that shouldn't even be a term because so many men are but just won't admit to it.
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Re: why not kill ourselves? *possible trigger

Postby Tabs » Sat Aug 10, 2013 12:29 am

what exactly is ephebophile anyways?

jailbait lover?

teens?

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Re: why not kill ourselves? *possible trigger

Postby callano » Sat Aug 10, 2013 12:50 am

Yeah that's it, basically teenagers under 18. I'm sure someone else could post the real definition.
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Re: why not kill ourselves? *possible trigger

Postby SloughPond » Sat Aug 10, 2013 1:15 pm

I have sexual feelings for and fantasies about young girls, peri-pubescent, either side of the line, but to date I've not acted on these.

I have a personality disorder or two which means i don't get on too well with people, and I am certainly not drawn to the personalities of little girls much, nor the personalities of anyone much.

I lead a pretty quite life: walk my dog, ride my motorbike, catch snakes in summer (which is nearly on us here, where I live), have a wank every now and then looking at 3d anime incest porn, get to the cinema once in a while, study a bit of maths and physics and read a lot.

As for suicide, I don't see any moral barrier; and as for saying that you shouldn't do it because of the pain you would cause those left behind, this is total bulshit! It's your life, if you are in too much pain, suicide is (or at least, can be) a rational, final answer to life's sufferings.

But I wouldn't do it because of society's view of sexuality; nor would I do it out of fear of hurting someone else.

As I said, I've not done anything yet for which I could be imprisoned, but that is largely luck, and a function of my growing older and no longer feeling Eros' imperious call so loudly any more, which is a blessing i guess.

But I might have done stuff, had I had the opportunity; all things being equal, if that were the case, and I still had other reasons to live, I wouldn't do myself over it.

But like I say: no-one, baby, has the right to tell you not to do it and it is positively immoral to try to shame or guilt someone into not doing it.

My 2 bob's worth.
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