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I really think i need her

Postby Bozman1900 » Thu Aug 01, 2013 1:30 pm

I fancy a young girl and i see her around in the park ridying her bike and talking to her friends she is about 9 to 10 and shes amazing. However i know how bad this is and its controlling me and my thoughts. Sometimes i wish just to do things to her withoit no consequnces i will never harm her but my life is becoming evolved around her

And the next thing is i want somebody to have a simple friendly chat to me about the girl and stuff
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Re: I really think i need her

Postby Anon539 » Thu Aug 01, 2013 2:01 pm

Pm me any time.
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Re: I really think i need her

Postby Gwion » Thu Aug 01, 2013 2:07 pm

I don't mean to sound harsh, but there's only one piece of advice you need to hear right now.

You can't have that girl, and you need to stay away from her.

All of us, at some point in our lives, fall for somebody who we can't be with. Yes, I know it hurts, but the best thing you can do is stay right away from this one. There's absolutely nothing good that might come from not doing so. I wouldn't be doing you any favours by telling you anything else.
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Re: I really think i need her

Postby rainbowstar » Thu Aug 01, 2013 3:23 pm

Maybe you should take her to a movie or something? Bake a cake together?
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Re: I really think i need her

Postby Tabs » Thu Aug 01, 2013 4:02 pm

Talking about it helps.
You can PM me and share the moments of your day. I understand you.

Do you think her parents are approachable?
Gwion is right, you mustn't ever engage the child unless the parents are aware of you.

What is it about her that you think you need? What does she have that you fancy?

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Re: I really think i need her

Postby ReVamp » Thu Aug 01, 2013 4:12 pm

rainbowstar wrote:Maybe you should take her to a movie or something? Bake a cake together?

This is what you should NOT do.
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Re: I really think i need her

Postby Anon539 » Thu Aug 01, 2013 4:25 pm

ReVamp wrote:
rainbowstar wrote:Maybe you should take her to a movie or something? Bake a cake together?

This is what you should NOT do.


Deffo. Agree 100%.
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Re: I really think i need her

Postby Simontheo » Thu Aug 01, 2013 6:53 pm

Anon539 wrote:
ReVamp wrote:
rainbowstar wrote:Maybe you should take her to a movie or something? Bake a cake together?

This is what you should NOT do.


Deffo. Agree 100%.


How would he do that? Kidnapping and then hurting the girl? This is a no no. What kind of idea is that?
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Re: I really think i need her

Postby Siamese Fever » Thu Aug 01, 2013 7:31 pm

rainbowstar wrote:Maybe you should take her to a movie or something? Bake a cake together?

Which reminds me, I should prolly get to work fixing those Chinese water colors I was gonna give to my niece...

Also, OP, there's a lot of movies where even a friendly non-paedophilic friendship with a little girl can backfire. People are to jumpy and $#%^ about it.

Probably best to let her go. It's for your own good.
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Re: I really think i need her

Postby Simontheo » Thu Aug 01, 2013 7:34 pm

Siamese Fever wrote:
rainbowstar wrote:Maybe you should take her to a movie or something? Bake a cake together?

Speaking of which, I should prolly get to work fixing those Chinese water colors I was gonna give to my niece.

:3 Aw! You seem like a great uncle/aunt l :mrgreen:
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