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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby ElKahn » Tue Jan 28, 2014 2:53 am

KCNova wrote:You're in a tough spot; but while the insults are a mental burden, they mean nothing. You ARE a pedophile (hebrephile actually but most people won't know the difference) so accept it. The ramifications of his knowledge and his subsequent actions are disturbing though.

Attraction to minors is frowned upon and his knowledge can ruin your life or worse, land you I the hospital. We are hated and misunderstood and our reputations/lives and families depend on our discretion, which you showed a lack of. Your "friend" is horrified by your revelation and will blow it out of proportion until you confront him and shut him out of your life. Even if you commit no crime, it is irrelevant because it is open season on pedos.

Good luck talking too him, I hope he is open to understanding that you are attracted to young girls and that doesn't make you a rapist or the monster in the closet...it makes you human. As for your feeling towards this 12 yr old, that can't be way on you; but you will survive. That's what fantasies are for...well that and lube.


I'm out to him and he showed me a genuine love, affection and support that I would never expect, so....I made a mistake to judge him negatively about it. Anyway....
No, I'm not a "hebephile, actually", I'm both (although I believe hebephilia should also be included in pedophilia, but anyway), since I'm attracted to prepubescent girls, and I'd say especially prepubescent girls as young as 8, but also girls at the very beginning of puberty.
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