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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby Tabs » Sun Aug 04, 2013 4:23 am

Hey rainbowstar, sorry for breaking apart dissy fillissy for all the wholesome pookies, LOL

Just kidding.
I'm insulting him but it's an inside joke.
I love rainbowstar.
Of all the personalities I've met online in the past decade, he is in the top 5 for sure.


I think it should be understood, when a gay guy says he is not attracted by a 12 year old maiden, basically, that is an opinion.
Because the fact of the matter is, she's the pinnacle of the known universe.
Being that pure potentiality for creation of offspring.
Nothing changes the world like impregnating a young maiden.
If you want to change the world, that is what you do, and you raise children.

Pleading to your politicians is NOT the way to change the world.

I am the undisputed Master of run on sentences.
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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby airwolffan » Mon Aug 05, 2013 11:10 am

People in general are far too quick to throw words around without thinking of the consequences, I have had numerous times people have used the word "pedo" against myself or others in an attempt at degrading someone, thinking it is just a joke, they don't realise how someone in that situation feels, or how that can cause issues for people who are not let alone people who are.

Same with people calling people gay or any other stereotype they use to degrade someone, oh but it's all just in fun.

I personally hate the word "pedo" it make me feel so $#%^ inside every time i hear the word.
One part of your life does not define you as a person. Said by a very womderful human being i have had the pleasure to know in my life.

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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby ElKahn » Sun Sep 08, 2013 3:25 am

Tabs wrote: I'll tell you something else,
anyone who says a 12 yr. old girl isn't attractive, is a dangerous liar who has no respect for the human life-cycle.


Absolutely right. I do think a 12 year old girl has got all the features to be called attractive, especially nowadays that they look more attractive for some reason, maybe it's the way they dress and act....
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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby Ar Ciel » Sun Sep 08, 2013 3:44 am

Thread is old, but since you revived it...
Just a question; he still continue with all of this insulting?

xoPinkerbelleox wrote:Um...someone who constantly does that isn't a very good friend and you should watch yourself around them. That's just as bad as someone constantly referring to a gay friend as "#######1". Personally, I wouldn't put up with it. If they can't accept you for who are you are, then they need to go. Simple as that. What you need to do is nut up and stand up to this friend as a man. Let him know that his behavior is NOT cool and that you won't be disrespected that way. PERIOD.

Overall, I think people in this forum SERIOUSLY need to think much harder about who they are opening up to. Because it's not like being gay. It's still socially acceptable to hate us (I speak as a pedophile - but the same for be said for necrophiles or anything else society looks down on). If you tell the wrong person and they blab it around it could wreck your life. Generally the number of people a person can REALLY trust can be counted on one hand.

Think. And then think again. Especially when so much is a stake.

P.S. Your friends are right. There's really nothing THAT wrong with your attraction. At various points in time you could have this specimen as a wife if you were so inclined. 18 is just an arbitrary number chosen by the government. Never mind the fact that plenty of young teens/teens are already being intimate with EACH OTHER. *eye roll*


This. I totally agree. What you have is not a good friend - wait, he cannot be even called a friend anymore.

Why'd you told'em, even knowing people's reaction to it? Wouldn't it be better to you, that they not know about this?

Tabs wrote:anyone who says a 12 yr. old girl isn't attractive, is a dangerous liar who has no respect for the human life-cycle.


Yeah, sure...pretty abnormal to a man not find a twelve-year old girl attractive :roll:
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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby ElKahn » Sun Sep 08, 2013 3:52 am

Ar Ciel wrote: Thread is old, but since you revived it...
Just a question; he still continue with all of this insulting?

We're not talking a lot lately, but seeing no more insults. If he says that word again, I'm gonna talk to him but without getting too angry, I don't want to make it look suspicious. You know, if someone gets extremely upset about a word, it either means it hurts a lot or that...there's a truth in those words, a truth we can't accept!

I told them because I feel lonely....but I've never told them the most intimate things.

-- Sun Sep 08, 2013 3:54 am --

Ar Ciel wrote: Yeah, sure...pretty abnormal to a man not find a twelve-year old girl attractive :roll:


Did you say it in a sarcastic way? :lol:
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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby Siamese Fever » Sun Sep 08, 2013 7:40 am

Tabs wrote:anyone who says a 12 yr. old girl isn't attractive, is a dangerous liar who has no respect for the human life-cycle.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UmPmpUTr22c
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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby ElKahn » Tue Sep 10, 2013 2:24 am

Siamese Fever wrote:
Tabs wrote:anyone who says a 12 yr. old girl isn't attractive, is a dangerous liar who has no respect for the human life-cycle.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UmPmpUTr22c


What's that?
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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby fluurtz123 » Tue Sep 10, 2013 3:15 am

To be blunt, I would ask him why he calls you these things, put him in your shoes, and see if he apologizes about it.... Whether thats genuine or not is up to you because everyone apologizes differently. If he continues to make fun of you I would break off ties with him and if it gets to the point that he damages your reputation with others, you can (should) report him to the authorities or the principal for slander.
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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby Gerste » Tue Nov 19, 2013 5:18 pm

Tabs wrote:I'll tell you something else,
anyone who says a 12 yr. old girl isn't attractive, is a dangerous liar who has no respect for the human life-cycle.
I'm not attracted to 12 y.o. females, and I know many men and women who are not. I think you are projecting your own attractions onto others. To me, a boy is attractive.
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Re: my friend insults me for being a pedophile please help

Postby Zebramouse » Tue Nov 19, 2013 6:26 pm

Gerste wrote:I'm not attracted to 12 y.o. females, and I know many men and women who are not.


I bet the men are lying.
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