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Are you exclusive, or does "vanilla sex" still do the trick?

Postby P0ppy » Wed Jun 26, 2013 12:59 am

I'm sure a lot of you still have normal, vanilla sex, seeing as a lot of peoples' paraphilias are secret or things they can't legally act on. But when you do have normal sex, can you get off on the sex itself, or do you have to be imagining certain things related to your paraphilia to be able to orgasm?
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Re: Are you exclusive, or does "vanilla sex" still do the tr

Postby Ditoros » Wed Jun 26, 2013 3:17 am

ill let you know that orgasm and sex is as much a mental process as it is a physical process.

I could always "feel better" with sex or masturbation, but when my current girlfriend and I got more serious, it took some effort, and eventually I became able to experience the most extreme orgasms by psyching myself up for it while we were having fun. It's probably at least half a mental process.
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Re: Are you exclusive, or does "vanilla sex" still do the tr

Postby Boogeyman » Wed Jun 26, 2013 3:38 am

Exclusive.
Lollipop, lollipop...
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Re: Are you exclusive, or does "vanilla sex" still do the tr

Postby KevinG31 » Wed Jun 26, 2013 8:06 am

Exclusive, the paraphilia is like 10 times the arousal and I don't find partial turn ons to be worth very much.
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Re: Are you exclusive, or does "vanilla sex" still do the tr

Postby produkt » Wed Jun 26, 2013 11:51 am

So, so, so exclusive.
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Re: Are you exclusive, or does "vanilla sex" still do the tr

Postby simgiran » Wed Jun 26, 2013 12:15 pm

Very non-exclusive. I am attracted to women and older prepubescent / pubescent boys plus I am slightly sadomasochistic and have some fetishes. I am still a virgin, but based on how I see different masturbation fantasies, I think "vanilla sex" would work pretty well. But non-vanilla stuff might be more arousing.
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Re: Are you exclusive, or does "vanilla sex" still do the tr

Postby Graveyard76 » Wed Jun 26, 2013 11:02 pm

I'm absolutely fine with vanilla, and usually with whatever other flavours she likes!
"Anybody remotely interesting is mad in some way or another." - The 7th Doctor.

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Re: Are you exclusive, or does "vanilla sex" still do the tr

Postby PNL2 » Thu Jun 27, 2013 11:58 am

Totally exclusive, tried the vanilla flavor and it was far too bland for me :lol:
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Re: Are you exclusive, or does "vanilla sex" still do the tr

Postby chaotic16 » Thu Jun 27, 2013 10:54 pm

Still a virgin, but when I masturbate I can only do it about children and pubescents. I really cant masturbate to adults at all. So I say mostly exclusive :wink:
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