Groups and Organizations

On the website there is a contact box click it and email the group leaders they usually ask you a couple of questions check your genuine then they will send you a link . You need a gmail email or google+ account to join as its a google group x

There are a few dozen online forums for boylovers and perhaps one or two for girlovers but I think the ones above that people have mentioned would be better for what you are looking for. It seems like these days you can only get real help once you have crossed that line with a child, otherwise you have to find a therapist and most times they want nothing to do with you. Heck I find it hard to talk to my therapist because it feels like they want nothing to do with me for the things that I have done against children but they were forced to see me just like I was forced to see them. I honestly don't feel like talking to them is going to change the fact that I am a pedophile though, oh well, the government is in charge, not me.