Is dating a pedophile possible?

i think pedo+pedo dating can be problematic

for me, i fantasized about being the child in an adult-child relationship, which led me to watch CP. that's problem one. as a way of attempting to get it out of my system i started dating a man (my age) who wanted to role-play adult-child sex. now i have problem two.

it has been amazing, that is, the role-playing sex has been amazing. but it's also horrible. and confusing. and a bit of a train wreck.

i believe we reinforce an interest in children in each other. it turns out that this has not always been an adult/adult role-play scenario for him. i don't know if he identifies as a pedo, but he is attracted to underage boys and girls. as for my role in this? i give him mixed messages: when i speak and act from the place of being an kid and an abuse survivor, i am telling him that i think sex with kids is ok and when i am thinking as an adult, i realize how wrong it is.

my fantasies are getting stronger since i've been with him.

i don't know how to fix this (although i do start a program to help me with these desires in a few weeks)...

-- Wed Apr 03, 2013 5:06 am --

oh, and to the OP



i think it is possible to find someone to date... but i think it would have to be someone who is very evolved and has practiced a deep form of compassion and forgiveness... a buddhist perhaps?

we've chatted a bit, and you seem like a nice guy. who did something really, really wrong. but has some insight into how that happened and how you will make sure it wouldn't happen again.

maybe that's one way to explain it... by talking about what you learned about yourself and how you know it won't happen again

QuackQuack wrote:but it's also horrible. and confusing. and a bit of a train wreck.

i believe we reinforce an interest in children in each other. it turns out that this has not always been an adult/adult role-play scenario for him. i don't know if he identifies as a pedo, but he is attracted to underage boys and girls. as for my role in this? i give him mixed messages: when i speak and act from the place of being an kid and an abuse survivor, i am telling him that i think sex with kids is ok and when i am thinking as an adult, i realize how wrong it is.

my fantasies are getting stronger since i've been with him.

i don't know how to fix this (although i do start a program to help me with these desires in a few weeks)...

Mmm, what are his thoughts on this?

I just started casually seeing a women in my apartment complex that knows I am a child molester/pedophile. She knows that I label myself a pedophile but still is interested in me which I kind of feel weird about and I often wonder what her motives are in dating me or wanting anything to do with me, she is younger and in her 30's and has a daughter but she doesn't hide her daughter from me either even though she asked if I was attracted to her daughter and I told her honestly that I was but she seemed not to care. She and I know that I would never do anything to her daughter but its just the idea that both of them know what I really am and are not sickend by me like the rest of the people in my apartment complex.

do you no she's not trying to trick you back into prison by confessing what you like to do be carefull

It's possible I think. The bigger issue is could you trust your children around them or the children of a close friend or family member.

HowardCL wrote:I just started casually seeing a women in my apartment complex that knows I am a child molester/pedophile. She knows that I label myself a pedophile but still is interested in me which I kind of feel weird about and I often wonder what her motives are in dating me or wanting anything to do with me, she is younger and in her 30's and has a daughter but she doesn't hide her daughter from me either even though she asked if I was attracted to her daughter and I told her honestly that I was but she seemed not to care. She and I know that I would never do anything to her daughter but its just the idea that both of them know what I really am and are not sickend by me like the rest of the people in my apartment complex.

Hope for your sake that you have found a trustworthy woman. Would be bad if it all was a trick. How cruel against her daughter too. Learning her daughter how to get someone imprisoned. As I said, hope she is trustworthy.