It Hurts..

I met a friend at work some years ago and have recently found out that his wife suffers from PPD. She has all the classic symptoms. No trust,No blame, fear of abandonment, and at times disolusional, please don't take this the wrong i was very close to this lady and loved her very much, We were all so close to point where i became part of there family. 12 months ago i was accused of having an affair with her husband - my mate.. I could not believe the hate and visciousness that she had towards me, still to this day i / we don't know what triggered that outburst. When she felt like talking to me, some days latter she had no expanation as to why she sent hurtful messages and said the things she did. I learn't then that this had happened many times throughout their married life with other close firends, in the past the other friends had just removed themselves from the hurt and pain and no longer involved them. This was having a huge affect on my mate.. When i first met him he was fun joking and a funtime guy. I dealt with the attack back then by speaking with a counsellor for my own understanding, and moved on by trying to understand the way she was thinking and that it really is a lifetime illness.. They started seeing counselling and things began to be better not normal but better...Obviously there were still the small outbursts in between but then she had me to talk to about the way she ws feeling. She was very sexually attracted to me and told me this quiet often she would explain every detail of their sexual history and experiences to me. Right down to the point as to when she masturbated she would ring and tell me... 12 months on it has happened again.. She went through my phone and found text messages from her husband to me, as much as i hate to say it some were flirty however there has been no physical contact between him and myself. World war 3 has started. She packed up my things from the house and left them outside when i went to pick them up she had placed dog crap all through my belongings i can see how she is hurting but she is in that relly bad place that nothing else matters. I have removed myself completly from the house and her family and have not responded to the 100's of messages and phone calls. The part that saddens me the most is that she tried to commit suicide by overdose 3 days ago and rang her husband while at work to tell him, she spent the day in hospital and was released once she was home again there was no mention of what she had done was wrong the blame was totally his fault. In my eyes and heart i can not forgive her for doing what she did. Although i realise this is an illness no one can get through to her that she needs to seek professionl help....In her eyes her husband has made her like this.. Has anyone else experienced anything like this... This is not a normal life and they both deserve alot more and happiness... I have only been dealing with this for 2.5 years cause i thought i could help..What afool i was thinking that i am exhausted i can only imagine how her husband is after 25 or more years... For all the people out there that live a life like this you honestly deserve a medal and some well earnt rest...

Hi, Jackpot! It sounds like this lady and those around her are going through a lot. It must be really tough. Hopefully people will share their experiences here.
How are you feeling and how is your life? You're a good friend.