need help... please

hello there!

i'm so greatful to found a forum site like this... hope somebody could help me with my problem...

i don't know what's happening with my husband... we've been married for 11 years now... we've been through thick and thin... he undergone open heart operation last March 2009. we are a happy family cause even we are not rich, we are contented on what we have as long as we have each other. we cannot sleep if either one of us is not around... we were so much inlove, as are friend told us...

but now, he's accusing me of having sex with other men... at first, i knew he was only a jealous type of guy, so it didn't bother me, cause i know he love me that much and he always told me that i am his world and his strength... until one day, only this first week of September. First, he accused me of having sex with one of his officemate when they were drinking in our house. Second, he accused me of having sex with my co-workers... and then lastly he thinks that i was being abused or should i say "raped" by a group of men which i don't even know... he was always viewing my facebook account and every post and comments that he read he thought it was meant for me... i know he was only being too paranoid... every night he bugs me and always says that he cannot accept what happened to me... he was telling stories that didn't even happened. like i came from work crying and told him not to left me whatever happens. that when we were having sex, i was crying and shouting my mother's name... then when we are on a public place, he says he heard people laughing cause i cheated on him... until he wants me moved me out of our house... he was so angry at me... he doesn't even want to talk to me or even see me, cause according to him, everytime he sees me, he only saw how dirty i was... i always try to explain everything to him but he just got more angrier...

please try to help me, i know mu husband had a problem which i cannot explain... i wanted to help him... i love him so much, and i don't know what to do without him...

Hi, bhebhe06! This must be really tough for you to go through, you don't deserve it. I'm sorry your husband is ill. Does the rest of his family know? Do you think you could convince him to get help together?
If he gets abusive or you can't be with him anymore, don't blame yourself, though.
Have you had to move out of the house?