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38 yr old daughter with PPD I think?

Postby cbijl » Tue Sep 27, 2011 5:53 pm

Hello everyone, I am just trying to decide how best to help my daughter she was released from the local Pschyciatric hospital at the end of March this year. She is currently on Income Support and not working and doesn't plan to work, her reasoning is this, she was raped and has been videotaped for the past three years, they are looking for her, she is dead already because they have killed her. She thinks I am involved somehow that I initiated the whole thing. Everyone in the world has seen naked pictures of her. She is trying to get AISH but they have turned her down and she is now appealing that decision. My husband and I are helping her financially, I am paying for her cable and internet and sometimes food and cigarettes, she gets 669 per month rent is 600 and power is 50. She has no phone. She goes everywhere in a winter coat and sunglasses even in 30 degrees celsius weather, mostly in pajamas as well. She won't go to the food bank because she doesn't like the lady who runs it. She occasionally sends me accusatory emails about lieing to her and working with these people behind her back the other night out of the blue she says I guess I was all over the news too, while the trial was going on and I was isolated in Red Deer?? I said what the hell are you talking about, no answer the next day she sends me this messenger chat I have removed her name and I hope the language is not offensive to some.

:said (5:52 AM):
Is that why you can't talk to me and tell me the truth??? Everyone thinks that justice has been served?? That it is official? I am the garbage?? They get to sit with their families and laugh while drinking their wine and say we sure showed her didn't we?? No ######6 trial huh??? Just let the public decide right??? Just show her vagina to the whole world that will make it better???
said (5:54 AM):
That will make everyone happy??? Then dump her on her ass and make her think it is all her fault?? No sex or privacy for her right?? I just belong to everyone cause I am EXTREMELY DEPRESSED RIGHT?? Just nothing!! Just a public naked body and vagina??? Don't try to feed me any of your #######4 either!! I am at the end of my ######6 rope with this $#%^!! I want to kill them!!
said (5:55 AM):
They deserve to ######6 DIE!!! This untruth is #######4!! I am starting to NOT BELIEVE a ######6 word you say anymore!! NOT ONE WORD, GOOD OR NOT!!! This is my ######6 life and my ######6 body and you and no one else owns me!!!
said (5:58 AM):
did your lawyer go to you or did you find him?? I know you lost your 80,000 but maybe you should have told me what the ###$ was happening and forgot all about the ######6 lies coming out of their ######6 mouth!!! I was not a horrible person and now I am dead!! I am so pissed off with this whole ######6 stupid game.... THEY DESERVE TO DIE AND THAT IS IT!! START TELLING THE ######6 TRUTH!!!
said (6:09 AM):
your lawyer was the guy in wetaskewin when we went for lunch that day and the guy behind you was testing to see if I wanted to be videotaped!! I know everything!! To continue lieing to me is pointless!! I know what is on the videotapes and Tony asked me how my weekend was after!! He was ######6 smug about it and was smug the rest of the time!!
You let Tony run the whole show!! He is a STUPID ######6 RAPIST BASTARD IDIOT AND YOU LET HIM RAPE ME!!!
said (6:10 AM):
NOW YOU ARE ALL PROTECTING HIM!! LIKE HE THE ######6 PRINCE OF CHINA OR SOMETHING!!! HE KNOWS WHAT HE DID AND I KNOW WHAT THEY DID!!!
said (6:11 AM):
THEY ###$ ME AND KILLED ME!! BECAUSE THEY ARE STUPID RAPIST BASTARDS!! THEY HAD A GOOD ######6 TIME DOING IT TOO I REMEMBER THE LAUGHTER AND THE COMMENTS!!! I REMEMBER EVERYTHING!!
said (6:12 AM):
THIS ######6 GAME HAS TO STOP!!! I AM NOT YOUR TOY AND I DID NOT DESERVE THIS!! THEY BELONG IN PRISON!!! I DON'T CARE IF I DIE HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO TELL YOU THAT!!! LET THEM TRY TO KILL ME I DON'T CARE!! I AM DEAD ANYWAY!!!
THAT IS WHAT THEY WANTED AND YOU ALL LET THEM!

So I showed this to my daughter-in-law she says I should stop helping her because I am enabling her to hide and not seek help for herself. Any advice would be helpful, do you think this is PPD or something else none of what she says is true or has happened. I wish I had $80,000 dollars to lose I have no idea where she got this figure from or where this trial idea got into her head. Please comment and tell me what you think this is and if I should continue to financially support her. She is currently not seeking any help for herself and maybe they are right I am just enabling her.

Thank you, Colleen
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Re: 38 yr old daughter with PPD I think?

Postby Evol222 » Wed Sep 28, 2011 1:56 pm

Hi Colleen,

I can't say whether you're enabling her or not, but from what you've described I'm wondering if she has violent tendencies.
Please take caution interacting with her while she's this unstable. I'm wondering if it would be best to not interact with her at all when she's like this. Delusions are powerful things and trying to reason with your daughter is most likely futile and counterproductive.
Has she ever been officially diagnosed? It sounds like schizophrenia to me, but I'm not a doctor and am only speculating.
Does she see a psychiatrist?

Well wishes,

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Re: 38 yr old daughter with PPD I think?

Postby cbijl » Thu Sep 29, 2011 2:48 pm

No she is not seeing a psych she quit seeing the last psychologist, she didn't like him I guess he was sick a lot, AISH is insisting she does go see one, I haven't spoken to her since this note, we had a blowup right after and I told her we couldn't help her anymore if she wouldn't get help for herself. I told her all this nonsense was delusions and that none of this happened, she totally believes it of course, and said I was lying and that there was nothing wrong with her. She is on meds but I don't think they are working one of them is Seroquil and the other an antidepressent she thinks the Seroquel is just for sleeping, I told her it was an antipsychotic she doesn't seem to believe that. I do worry about her when I don't see her, but the freedom is also nice. Most of the time she is ok she acts reasonably normal but every once in a while these delusions seem to take over.
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Re: 38 yr old daughter with PPD I think?

Postby cbijl » Thu Sep 29, 2011 4:57 pm

PS Her first diagnosis two yrs ago was PPD I don't know what this new diagnosis was she won't tell me or let me speak to the doctor's about it.
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