by HR_p » Sun May 01, 2016 9:54 pm
Easier risk repricing. Or maybe, more likely to risk reprice in the markets a bit ahead of the curve.
I have been attempting to have more of the positive types of PPD traits such as mindfulness and the ability to perform moving analysis of environments, so that I can boundary-set. Continuous and ongoing setting of healthy boundaries and self-worth behaviors are my weak areas.
I was caught in a trap set by a pwNPD a few days ago. I tried to avoid the person, he trapped me into an interaction, and then I permitted him to spew derogatory statements camouflaged as "I hope you didn't think X, even though we did all of these "X" behaviors to you for five years." Nobody ever wanted you to think "X" and if you did, you were mistaken. So I proceeded to engage in a conversation with him unnecessarily, to the point of saying things I shouldn't have said. I should have just waved as I walked away. If I had more PPD traits, I would have stood at the window, watched for his car to leave the lot, and only then proceeded safely to my vehicle.