so many things-and denial and spending

i have also posted on issues of my husbands sex addiction (pornography,phone sex cybersex with any sex and much older people)or ocd whatever it may be classed as,I don't know.he is obsessive but gets angry at any labels but how do you live with it.

in shops wants instantly to buy particular things and in a recent incident (see my other posts) he will say I am moody,I am a know it all,I am angry when I try to make him think about what he is doing.Says i am the one who is causing trouble

Anyone help me here.I have been told he has obsession and anxiety he gambles but then we didnt know about the other stuff.

All the money I brought when we got together has gone, he says "you have had all these luxury holidays and luxury cars (exagerration) Mentally I have been at rock bottom.he gets a

I thought I was investing the money in our house loan (mortgage) but i didnt understand the money was being wasted on other things,lots of overspending,its gone now.I sold my house.