Groinal Responses

Hey guys, I haven’t posted here in a while, I’m attending therapy and doing CBT, my “theme” is related to sexual orientation and sexual obsessions in general. I’ve been obsessing about my orientation for the last 3 years, nowadays I’ve accepted the possibility of never knowing for sure if I’m hetero or gay or bi, in fact I actually think I don’t care but the groinal responses keep me in this loop, I don’t even get anxious anymore I just feel them, some are nothin just a tightning sensation in my penis, some others feel like jolts of arousal that suddenly stop. I have had erections, 3 to be more precise, I can orgasm if i masturbate to images when Im anxious while looking at them and I tend to notice guys. I’m still attracted to women and whenever i feel arousal thinking about women it feels better and I’m usually relaxed. I think that’s it, my obsession may be on groinal responses itself as I’m pretty ok on being bi. Any tips on overcoming groinal responses