Constantly checking if i'm horny enough? +18

I have a Gf for a month now, and I have this annoying thing, where, even when she's not with me, i'm constantly checking if i'm horny enough when I think about her.....
Like, ----i have the obligation of feel hornyness when I think about her naked.....

Thats annoying cuzz, we dont need to feel this way all the time right?
Sometimes even when we make love, I think i'm not that horny, and I feel an Emptyness inside...

anyone relates? damn

Do you love her?

No, you can feel horny whenever you want to. Anxiety won't allow you to as much if ever.

I would also like to add that asking about love might backfire and lead to more obsessing.