luxury wrote:clearskies84 wrote:luxury wrote:As I understand it, that "encounter" happened when she was very young. So it does not count or define her in any way. I enjoyed to eat snails and butterflies when I was a kid, that does not mean I would enjoy that today. It would be another thing if she would enjoy sexual encounters with females to this day, then it would be something else.
Sexuality can fluctuate during a person's life if they already have a slight pre-disposition, again though, the important thing is that she's able to stop fixating and move on, which is where professional treatment comes in.
So what you're suggesting is that people are biologically bisexual, and that this fluctuate during a person's life? I would agree sexuality is on a spectrum, but there is no research or evidence that supports the idea of sexuality changing over night, nor is there any evidence of people generally being born bisexual. Majority of straight people have homosexual fantasies and have experimented sometime in their life with the same sex, which makes labels somewhat unnecessary. But again, it's commonly established sexuality is a biological process amongst the academics working with this subject. Whatever I know it could be wrong, but that's what we have for now.
I said, IF they have a slight pre-disposition, obviously that doesn't mean everyone. And yes, I don't buy into the notion of someone changing due to external factors. As I said, OP appears to be predominately heterosexual and may well be for the rest of her life, the important thing is that she doesn't feel needless guilt or read to far into her past experiences.
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