normal?

Hey guys for awhile ive been doing much better with lots of my fears but recently i was horny and gave into temptaion and talked dirty with a girl who is younger than me. Im 19 and she's 14 and i feel guilty and think that im a pervert. We basically just played out a teacher/schoolgirl fantasy and i really liked it. This makes me feel bad and i dont know if its ocd or im a pevert. Is this normal? help!!

Hi!

This answer will be a bit weird. But I hope you'll understand my point.

Your mind will only consider what you see when determining what turns you on and not. For example, say you saw a hot girl, got turned on, only fearfully discover two minutes later that she was 13 and very well developed for her age, that doesn't make you a pedophile. Another example, say you saw another hot girl, got turned on, and found out "she" was a transvestite. That wouldn't make you gay. See my point? Pedophile people are turned on by the fact that whoever turns them on is not physically developed. So I guess you are safe regarding that. We've had a lot of debate about this in my country, girls faking their age, having sex with older men and getting them charged of sexual abuse later, or blackmailing them.

However, I'm obliged to say that now, given the fact that you know she is 14, I think it's wrong to engage in any sexual activity with her. I don't know the law in your country, but in my country, that would be illegal. You should consider finding a girl at your age.