my boy friend have been avoiding me for some time now,he doesnt want me to visit his house,his excuse being that the whole place is messy and he wouldnt want me to see. he hardly calls me,this makes me rush off to the bathroom every time to cry,even at my office,its making me loose concetration at work.i try to let him know how he is hurting me,but he keeps promising me he would change.the latest ...