I am almost 40, grew up with family members with Cluster B traits, and (surprise!) I have zero history of long term relationships. My most recent relationship attempt lasted a grand ol 6 weeks. Started off intense, he idealized me, and as I was already lonely, I fell for everything.
He admitted in the beginning he had mental health problems, including self-harm, constant mood swings, emptiness, pushing people away, self hatred, and others. In hindsight, ...