News of Rape Trauma

Ok, so back in October I met this girl who would eventually become my girlfriend. Unfortunately, before our relationship could really foster on it's own, she was raped. She came back to me the night it happened and I went into support mode. It took over a week to convince her to go to the crisis center but she never did follow up with any of the services offered. She did improve over time on ...

I posted before about being forced, this was a few weeks ago now. I have been trying to move on, I confided in my best friend, who is also my ex boyfriend, we love eachother (or at least i love him and i think he loves me) but we are close and he is the only person i trust with this information. We were driving home one night after our weekly 'date night' that used ...

My best friend and I used to date, this was 2 years ago, our relationship was mainly physical but once it ended we became really close friends. We have always had a sexual friendship in the manner that we flirt quite a lot.
He has a girlfriend who he has been with for a year now and claims he loves her, there was on incident before the one that this entry is for, basically we ...

Several years ago I was sexually assaulted repeatedly by a couple that used mind games on me... "We made you feel good... we did things for you... don't you want to make us feel good in return?" I'd be happy to talk more in depth about what happened if you want. But what I want to share is the therapy that I finally found that saved my life. It sounded like hocus pocus at the ...

First rapist had knife at my neck; I didn't know him, never looked at him - have neck paranoia to this day and height issues (We were on a tall cliff at the beach, I thought He was going to throw me over; He threatened death about 4 times. I cried and begged him to stop the whole time. He didn't. (16 years old; I was a virgin; 52 now)

Second rapist I knew, (we ...

I have frequent thoughts of being 'almost raped' again. It is because I did not fight hard enough when I was raped. It is hard to forgive myself for this, but I realize I was just a teenager, paralyzed by my alcoholic family life that taught me never to speak up, defend myself, or have any self-worth.
Now I find I almost PUT myself in dangerous situations, hoping that someone will try to attack me ...

Hey everyone,

So I met a BPD girl about 10 months ago and she came to visit me for my graduation. During that time she stayed with me and there were several times that I was sure that she had taken advantage of me in my sleep. Due to the nature of BPD we don't talk right now but I don't know how to feel about it or really what to do. The thought of ...

I need help, I haven't been rape myself but I am going out with a girl who has been raped repeatedly. I try to support her the best I can but lately it has take a wrong turn. One of the person who raped her more than once is back into her life because of a family tie. She sees this person regularly and says she forgave him and is friendly with him. She sees ...

ok im 22yrs old an have been molested by my stepfather several times an about 2yrs ago i was raped by a stranger i havent thought bout either things since its like they didnt exsist but now im having the flashbacks an horrible nightmares i have a loving boyfriend that im soon to marry an he know of both things but im lost am i going crazy i havent had any trouble wit them thus ...

Hey All:

I posed a while back dealing with my then GF who was going through RTS. Her ex beat and raped her. Regrettably she broke up with me as she felt "incapable of being in a relationship." Anyways, our long distance (she is in Europe and I am in the States) ends in 3 weeks. We will be in the same city again, (Europe) and I am still in love with this girl (even ...