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Why do Paraphilias develp in young child?

I started noticing paraphilias when i was around 5 years old. I would not like to talk about too many details, but it's not paedophilia - i never harmed anyone.

The problem is that i suffered from dozens of different paraphilias. Some diminished (exhibicionism for example), but i still have a lot of them. Thankfully, i can enjoy normal sexual intercourse with women. But i just don't understand why i have so many paraphilias... why ...
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What do you want from this forum?

I'm not the owner of this site; I'm just a volunteer with an interest in sexuality and paraphilias. But I want to pose a question to the users here: What do you want from this forum?

Now I may not be able to give you what you want, so no promises :mrgreen: , but let's talk about it anyway.

This is one of the more controversial ...
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Paedophile looking for conselling/therapy

Bit of a rant, skip to bottom for relevant question...

I'm 21 and have been dealing with knowing I'm a paedophile since I was 14 or so. I started thinking sexually around 10 or 11, mostly about about girls my own age and younger. I assumed this was just normal, until around 14/15 I realized I was still thinking about prepubescent girls and boys, going down as young as 5... I strived to ignore this, ...
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Is it possible to develope paraphilia later in life?

Hey everyone. I was curious after reading so many posts about people with paraphilias of all kinds which seemed to come about at an early age. People say they had these fantasies in childhood or ealy adolescence. If I do have a paraphilia which I am not sure if I do... is it possible to not have it all all until age 21-23... The reason I ask is because I always got off to normal ...
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I want to be romantically involved with young(ish) girls

Hi everybody,

I'm new here and was wondering whether my 'tastes' count as a paraphilia or are just normal. I'm a heterosexual male in his mid 30s and, as the subject line says, what I really want is to be romantically involved with young girls. I'm not talking about children, though the law probably says they are. I notice there are a lot of pedophiles on here and I'm just not one of them (no ...
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Paranoid?

Hello!

So I decided to come on here because I wanted to ask a question and have/hear others thoughts or insight on the situation.

When I was 16, I was living with my Mother and her friend of 20 years. He was a super nice guy. But we noticed while living with him he had unusual behaviour.....for instance he had a lock on his bedroom door and a computer in there although there was a ...
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Pedophiles- Do You WANT To Have Sex With Children?

This is something that has bothered me for years, trying to figure out just what my thoughts and "urges" meant. If you read my thread here: http://www.psychforums.com/paraphilias/topic68447.html you will see that I did not want to look at those pictures. I did not even find them as arousing as I used too, and yet I could not bring myself to immediately stop. I wanted to see all of them, and I don't know why. I ...
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I've been having some pretty wierd and disgusting thoughts..

I wasn't sure what forum I should put this under...but I've been having some very strange and disturbing thought's lately of being sexually attracted to my mother... :(
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Have you told anyone?

I told a friend of mine who is a much better person than I, and he had no problems with me saying that I felt attracted to "too young girls", meaning "having entered puberty".

And I think the way he's taken it in stride has helped me relax about it, and not consider it such a big deal.

What have your experiences been in coming clean, or do you think about it?
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very confused

im quite confused how an adult liking someone whos 16-17 is wrong. unless of course they act on it.

i sometimes like guys that are 16, once it happend but only once.

also my bf has a crush on this girl from a movie who is 14.

also me and my best friend both has crushes on talor laughter in twilight lol

if they are gone through puberty i really dont see how this is ...
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