"Should I tell my ex's friends /family / current girlfriend about HPD?"
I've seen this question from at least 3-4 different posters in the last couple of weeks, so I thought I'd open up a new thread and try to address the question in more detail.
The biggest concern for you as you exit (or consider exiting) a relationship with an HPD is protecting your emotional health. Contacting the HPD's friends and family to inform ...