I had no idea that there was a forum for this! I'm happy to find it, and sad that we're here. My 10-y-o dd was diagnosed with ODD and Reactive Attachment Disorder a few years ago. She is very violent and abusive.
I have 20 units of child development in college, I have read The Explosive Child, we've been in therapy for 6 years. She just keeps getting worse.
The therapy is a joke. She ...