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Speculation, experience, what kind of relationship would it be between these two?
Texts I've read state it's not even possible. But Im curious.

I am total empath. Embarassingly so. When I was in D&D stage with narc ex he would say I was the most miserable person and would never be happy. I would counter with I have fun, family and friends so no I'm not miserable. His counter well yes you do that but you're miserable. You always will be uou can't be happy. Fun isn't being happy. Also comments like if you can't work what meaning ...

I am total empath. Embarassingly so. When I was in D&D stage with narc ex he would say I was the most miserable person and would never be happy. I would counter with I have fun, family and friends so no I'm not miserable. His counter well yes you do that but you're miserable. You always will be uou can't be happy. Fun isn't being happy. Also comments like if you can't work what meaning ...

I am interested in whether or not a narcissist designs a discard of a non based off of either spoken of or perceived weaknesses of the non.

I make it very clear to friends/sig others that I only found out my father was having extra marital affairs by accidentally viewing a string of emails he wrote to his girlfriend when I was a pretty young girl and it ruined my relationship with him. I made ...

Do you really want to become 'normal'? Are you actually looking for help? What are your motives?


I know that, at least in my situation, there is a lot of conflict in my mind. The narcs biggest victim is themselves when it comes to manipulation. It's often very hard to understand why i am doing things, i'm not sure if you guys can relate to this. This is down to insecurities, and hiding your own ...

Victim

- strong super ego
- sensitive id
- no ego

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Chain of brain patterns:

- sensitive id is inhibted by strong super ego
- lack of self-assertion
- depression/anxiety
- looking for cause of depression through anxiety
- cause is strong super ego - deluded to be morality - a compulsion to succumb to external libido and deny ones own
- cause can not be identified in ones own compulsion - it is ...

As a narcissist, how might you react when you do something to lose a valuable source of supply? Like when they ignore or go no contact because of something you've done? Do you smother them with manipulations? Do you fear them because, in a way, you've exposed a bit of your true self? Do you avoid them because you avoid apologies? If this person was a valuable object that walked away because of your obviously ...

Please don't go........ :(

You have been an inspiration.....

I recently ended my relationship with a covert N and went NC. It's been about 3 weeks now. Since then he has emailed me, phoned me, and texted me every day saying he loves me, misses me, will wait for me. On his FB he posts sad songs about love, breakups etc.

I realize these are attempts to hoover me but I don't understand why he bothers anymore. Not once have I responded. Is it ...

So, I can't say whether my mother is narcissistic, but I'd say she probably has some traits. I've been trying to figure her out lately, and I thought maybe I could get some help from people with more experience/knowledge when it comes to narcissism.
I want to know why she's always treated me the way she has.

Here's a little background info on my parents and family first, but my thoughts are kind of scrambled ...