News of Fetishes

So,

the other day i was in psychology class and my professor said fetishes are similar to phobias, we learn them. This kind of stuck with me and i attempted to ask her about it but she didn't really answer my question.

Are fetishes learnt? Do we just see it once and become attracted to it, what makes us have the fetishes we have?

I hope there's an answer to this, please dont tell me ...

im an 18 year old girl, and i always have a fantasy of being raped, or video taped while raped, being drugged and raped comes up a lot and it kind of scares me to have these fantasies.

Im thinking of it as if i have a partner and i tell him about these fantasies, and he decides to try it and like role-play rapes me (u know) and then i just dont like it. ...

Ok this is my other fetish, a bit weird but whatever.
In all of my fantasies I have a friend who is in madly in love with me, but I pretend I don't love him back.
I tease him such as touching him a lot, but always just 'friendly' of course. My ultimate desire would be that he gets premature ejaculation from it, especially in public ...

WARNING: If you are easily offended or triggered, please move on to another topic.

Okay, I have fetishes for some crazy stuff, like rape, torture, asphyxiation, murder, and necrophilia, and I am more attracted to pubescent girls than to adult women. I know better than to tell anyone in real life about this, let alone act on any of it. But I'm living with a secret and it kind of weighs on me, psychologically. I ...

Hi,

So I'm not sure if this fetish is erotic by definition, but you can say it sometimes turns me on, or I just get a great thrill from it, I don't know. But I just love to provoke others. With taunting remarks whether they are subtle, sarcastic or straight out mean. I love starting arguments, acting rude, talking down to others though I don't mean it. Secretly, I don't mind if they call me ...

My fetish is out of hand.

I collect girls and boys underwear. I buy them at thrift shops and anywhere that sells children underwear. I will buy them online on Ebay as well as Amazon or other places like that. I have found childrens underwear at public pools and have kept them. My collection is pretty big and I must admit that I am a Pedophile exclusive so nothing but children get me sexually aroused. ...

Can a woman please tell me why a Foot and Shoe fetish turns women off?

Thank you

Steve

Mod edit

I feel like I'm really odd but I'm really, really into panties, especially bikini cut briefs. But the panties I love the most are simple, white cotton ones, like the cheap kind. They were more common in the late 90s, I'd link a picture but I know that would be triggering and do not want to risk it.

I always use to get excited in middleschool when I'd sit behind girls I had a crush ...

Is this a weird fetish. Is it even a fetish at all?

I love seeing women with their sleeves up, particularly those wearing hoodies or sweatshirts. E.G. they wear a hoodie or sweatshirt and push the sleeves up somewhere around their elbows then permanently leave them there. It gets me going every time, no matter who or where they are.

Anyone else do the same?