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***moved to soff as it is about an ex partner that potentially has hpd. people with hpd please note that this post may be triggering***

I broke up with my girlfriend over 5 months ago, but the whole relationship and the breakup was very different than any other I’ve had. We went out for over 8 months. To this day I still feel that the whole experience through me for a loop – like what ...

***this post has been moved to the significant others, family & friend forum as it has to do with a partner who has bpd. a shadow is being left in bpd as well***

Hello there, I'v met this girl online, and it's been a month since we were in contact with each other. It's been a long distance relationship till now(I know it's ironical) and I always wanted to meet her. A day before I ...

My boyfriend of six years was diagnosed ( by a counselor with AVPD )
Heres a list of symptoms.

Extreme sensitivity. ( emotional and touch )
Dose not like being hugged or kissed randomly. ( I normally ask unless he initiates it )
Over-reacts to situations.
Extreme anxiety.
Unable to do things on his own in social situations ( go to store, leave the house etc )
^ mainly anything to do with public he ...

After almost 2 years I thought I had moved on and was over my feelings for my HPD friend. After a while of no contact and a reconciliation that followed we've been friends again for over a year.
Getting along well but not quite as close as we used to be. Thought I was doing OK just being her friend.

Anyway, I'm pretty sure that a co-worker of mine whom I am friends with has ...

My partner is bi polar... He takes his meds.. He sees his psych doctor when he is suppose to.. And he does drink.. More to deal with stress ... But for the lat few weeks he has been very paranoid... And accuses me of some of the craziest stuff.. I try to tell him that the stuff he accuses me of is not true and that he is paranoid.. He doesn't believe me and then ...

how do the nons react?

I had really bad breakup and now i feel really confused.

my boyfriend left me out of blue about 3 weeks ago. and I feel it can be possible he has bpd.

(despite he left me abruptly, he still contacted me from time to time by text after breakup, but i do care for him, if symptom could be bpd or similar , i need to know how to talk to him and what to ...

I've been with my HPD wife about 9 years, married 3.5 years. She's not formally diagnosed, however after realizing I didn't know who I was anymore I had to search for answers. The ...

Hi friends,

My BPD boyfriend of 4 years has very suddenly decided to stop talking to me nearly 2 months ago. One day we were speaking on the phone normally, and then apparently the tone of my voice (perhaps, tired? sleepy?) set him off, he triggered and hung up the phone on me and when I called him back he told me that he was getting into one of his 'moods' and that he had ...

How do you get back with a bpd ex? How do you make them want you again? Ive done a lot of reading on these forums to help understand the painting of black and white and how people diagnosed w bpd do not connect 1 event to another, how they are all separate. The last time i saw her she told me she never wanted to be w me again and she was about to ...