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Forum for significant others, family and friends of people with mental illness to discuss relevant issues they face.
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This is a support forum for the family, partners and friends of those with mental health issues. This forum is intended to be a safe place to discuss information, give and receive support and learn about all the issues related to being involved with a person with a disorder. Whilst it can be healthy to express various emotions, please remember to be respectful about the disorder itself. This is a place for constructive discussions, not a venting forum.

The issues experienced by the significant others of those with disorders cannot always be discussed in the other parts of the site in a way that does not trigger those with disorders. Moderators may therefore move threads from other forums into this one at their discretion.

My Brother

Hello.

Looking for help on how to get through to my brother. he was a married man with 4 kids and after cheating on his wife with prostitutes turned abusive towards his partner. he has refused help or speaking to someone professionally.

I am looking for insight on his pathology *mod edit*

Please help me
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Understanding my loved one.

Hello, I'm writing to better understand the difficulties of a loved one.

Are there any resources describing the effect of early loss of parents (not by death, but by drug addiction) and the subsequent departure from home to live autonomously in early adolescence? And, perhaps, how to communicate effectively with somebody who has been through such difficulty?

Thank you. The request is vague, but I am willing and eager to read as much as is ...
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Hatred campaign from sibling with possible group B disorder

I'm new to the forum and thank you for accepting me. I'm hoping I might get some help please.

I have a sister. She hasn't been physically in my life in about a decade. We fell out. We had a row and afterwards she ignored me and behaved like a bull with me. We never patched things up. She was very difficult with me after that row and she brought up other rows from our ...
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SO and Inner wars

Hello,

I have been the SO of someone with DID for 10 years, and I have always read the importance of staying neutral when it comes to the inner wars.
But what should a SO do when your loved one is caught up in huge inner wars opposing 2 sub systems : all the protectors vs all the persecutors.

I mean when chidlren are involved, caught up by an abusive alter, calling to you, begging ...
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Child alter confusing boyfriend with dad

Hello,

I have been in a relationship with a woman with DID for almost 10 years, so I know about it.

I have now met a woman and detected diferent personallities in her and found out she too has DID (not diagnosed yet but seeing a T after I insisted on it).

From what she told me, the very day we met she found something strange about me, special.
very soon after thath she started ...
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Missing host and relationships

Hello everyone,

I have been reading many posts here in the past 10 years and it has helped me a lot, thank you.

I have been in a long distance relationship with someone with DID, not diagnosed, for almost 10 years (her system was made of at least 100 alts I got to talk to)
She has always been in denial and the only T I could have her meet was before I found out ...
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Any answers?

My husband has bipolar depression and when he gets in a mania state on day 3 of no sleep he starts accusing me of cheating on him and really believes I am with men in front of him and other stuff. What is this and why?
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Feel that I'm in an abusive relationship - Is there any hope

Hello everyone, I have been in a rollercoaster of a relationship with my girlfriend over the past 2 years. It feels that it gets better for a short period of time and then something happens to make it worse again. I felt that this might be a good place to reach out and talk with others who might be in similar situations.

A bit of background: I am a 30 year old man and have ...
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Quite BPD - Signs and Singals

Hi all,

I had a relationship with a girl which ended about exactly four years ago. Although I had two relationships after that, no girl was able to keep up with those intense moments I had with that girl. I did the mistake and checked her social media which I didn't look up for almost two years. I have seen that she has married and with a child.

Unfortunately, exactly that has triggered the memories. ...
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What mental health problems does my friend have?

I can’t get this person to go to the doctors for a proper diagnosis. She is a transgender m to f. 54 years old. Will not talk about herself and her problems much. Here is some of the things she does.

1. Yells and screams out loud to all day long to these voices in her head or to no one. With lots of swear words and anger. This can go in from morning to ...
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