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passive aggressive

So, i have to start off that i seek no attention, pity or sorrow. The recurring thought of suicide is so common now that it has become normal for me. Thats where im at right now, and have been there for a while.

I am in a relationship with a woman, lots of baggage between us, i dont care about her baggage (meaning that her past doesnt bother me in the slightest. matter of fact, ...
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Not understanding Male violence

Early on, in childhood, I suffered enough physical violence from my Stepfather to now have severe PTSD, to include dissociative episodes and panic attacks. I'm 72, divorced, and actually had surgery to change from male to female as much as possible. I was not "transgender" and am Celibate now.

I was married for 38 years to a very damaged, but successful woman who constantly quipped that males were inferior or some such trash. I did ...
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My sister's boyfriend is abusive, what can I do?

I have an older sister. We didn't grow up together, in fact, we met for the first time about a year and a half ago. We have a lot in common and became good friends.

I dislike her boyfriend, who she has been with for about 5 years. She has a very love/hate relationship with him. She's always saying that he's an asshole, cheat, alcoholic, druggie and that she dreams of leaving him but cant, ...
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Epilepsy and Spousal Abuse

I’m epileptic and my spouse has been my sole transportation for the past year. He married me 12 yrs ago knowing there could be bad times. He decided to limit his work to make this happen so I could still work, provide insurance, 401(k) and my salary. Late last year I had a terrible seizure that nearly took my life. After being comatose for a day, in the hospital for a week and enduring a ...
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the aftermath

ok so this is a first for me ... disclosing this part of my life...I just wanted to know if anyone else out there feels the way do..

so I am a dv survivor. I have experienced It for ten years of my life before fleeing.
You all know the ins and outs of these type of relationships...but what I have found I have struggled the most with after everything is dealing with it .... ...
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My wife beat me but I need that...

First off all I want to say hello to everybody and to say that I am sorry for bad English, it is not my primal language.

Well..when my wife think that I misbhave, she beat me with her hand, belt or switch. It start before 2years when I said something bad to her. She kick me with her hand and than with my own belt. She beat my leggs, back and ass with belt or ...
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My wife-beating father is getting married again

Hi, I hope this isn't too off-topic, but this forum seemed the most appropriate place to ask this. I'm having a really tough moral dilemma and no idea what the right thing to do is.

I'm not a domestic violence victim myself, but my mother was. Years ago my father almost killed her and only didn't succeed because one of my brothers happened to walk into the room just in time. My father has always ...
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Help?

Can anyone tell me if this is abusive?

Long story short, some stuff is coming to light from my soon to be exhusband. I'm so confused about everything. He constantly tells me that I've done things that I've never done. Here's a message (some info has been dotted out for safety sake):

I really wish you would have called me before messaging me these awful things that you promised you would never do again. One, ...
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Struggling to care for my sick toxic mother

My relationship with my mother has been complicated my whole life. She is a very controlling, manipulative and insecure person, and I suspect she may have the narcissistic personality disorder.

I kind of learned to live with this and deal with her mood swings in my own way, and never really questioned her behaviour. However, in the past few years I started making a career at a job I love, and my self-confidence grew tremendously. ...
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My solicitor lost my divorce papers with my personal details

My divorce from a violent man was granted by the courts on the 19th December 2018, although 'I have never seen these papers as despite the solicitor telling me she had sent them to me 7th January, they are nowhere in sight and the post office claim that they were never in their system. This has had a real psychological impact upon my as my legal documents have just gone with my personal data on ...
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